Im a nanny 24year old.I have to taking care of his son, he is married n got a son.he is 45 year old n getting divorce with his wife. so he said he will marry me,it can be or not? I really love him so much but i dont want to forceto marry me because he love his wife so much ,i think he don't love me but he needs my help for his son ,I always take care him, his mon is not stay with us once in a month she also geting marry with other guy . we know each other beeing more than 2 year already. i really want to no if we get marry will have problem with his son or some thing else? what will happen to us or not ? If i will have my own child ......?I should marry or not I just dont no what to do ?PlEASE HELP ME
2007-02-14 22:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop....you are making me dizzy.....only you can know if he loves you...but right now he is married so stop thinking about it
2007-02-14 22:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it! Have you heard the phrase "rebound"?
It will not work, and if they are getting a divorce the women usually end up with the kids. Unless he can prove her unfit.
You are just too handy for him right now, I would take a leave of absence and work somewhere else for a while, then see what happens.
2007-02-15 06:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry him. You know you shouldn't. He is just hurting. Distance yourself from him. You are a proffessional nanny, not a replacement for his wife. How will you find your Mr. Right, if you marry this man out of pity?
2007-02-15 06:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sure if you're ready to be a piece of meat and a supporting leg for the rest of your life without an actual life of your own, feel free. If you're okay with it.
2007-02-15 06:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by dreamspirit_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and run fast, This is a sin and not a gift from God, If this guy is disrespecting his wife, soon he'll begin disrespecting you. Eventually you'll be riddle with how do I get out of this relationship. Apologizes for your involvement, but cut him off, it's not worth it,,,,,,,
2007-02-15 06:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask what other people think, you obviously has serious doubts. And if you have serious doubts yourself, I don't think it sounds like good idea. For what its worth, I say don't - it does not sound right.
2007-02-15 08:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you marry him your making a big mistake it will never work out sorry
2007-02-15 08:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋