Ya ya, so I have been in a relationship for a really LONG time and my man has agreed and is supportive of me wanting to try experimenting with women, I told him that he could be there when it happened if it did, but that he couldn't do anything with her. He is MORE than happy to watch from the corner whatever happens. Has anyone had a good or bad experience with this they would like to share? No psychological babble please, I already have that end covered, just looking for your personal experiences... NOT advice, thanks!!
2007-02-14 22:02:30 · 9 answers · asked by NYchickenGal 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no problems here,,, just watched a little once!
talking about this leads to some very hot times,
the only problem is finding a girl,, for this event,
that is descreet and not crazy !
cant wait till, chance comes along for us to play more,,, just enough last time to really get curiousity up !! good luck if we can be of help,
let us know !
2007-02-15 07:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there ~ done that. No problems.
We had several very nice MFM moments and a few FMF moments, too.
As long as your relationship is stable and you're both on the same page with no insecurities, you should be fine.
I doubt it's something you're going to make a long-term habit out of. A lot of couples have a period of "experimentation" and then return to more conventional patterns of sexual play.
I will admit that the chances for potention emotional problems far outweigh the fun part, but again, if you've talked it over real good, have fun.
2007-02-15 00:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been involved with many aspects of the 3some game. The only time I have heard that it ended bad is when the couple failed to talk about the pros and cons of it.
Communication is the key. Set down ground rules and enjoy. Many guys will say go ahead in the hopes that during all the heat he will get invited in. You should probably be very secure and be sure he is secure in the relationship too.
2007-02-14 23:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tinker Bell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was some 25 years ago but the girl I was dating had the experimenting urge and got her female cousin to join us one week end.We did not break up over this event nor the next 2 times(each involved a different female).But she was accepted to school in Utah nd I did not want to go there.
2007-02-15 01:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ME! We have had nothing negative ever come from a 3sum weather it was with a man or woman....well ok one night we all drank too much in the hot tub and the guys couldn't get it up...but aside from that its always been very wonderful. Just be sure it's what you want and jealousy won't come into play. If you aren't secure in your marriage this will make things worse. However, if you are very secure, this will make it better.
2007-02-14 23:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy Bi Chick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My sis is bisexual & has had many 3-somes. She advocates the 3-some as a great experience & has suggested I should try the same without any inhibition.
However I personally am not mentally or emotionally ready for a 3-some, and am not sure if I will ever be involved in a 3-some.
2007-02-14 22:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
My wife and I have had a few threesomes, and it worked really well for us.
2007-02-16 02:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Works for some doesn't for others. In exp you have to try it first to know if you like it or not. I think its fun if there's no strings atc
2007-02-14 22:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yuk!
2007-02-14 22:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 6⤋