I'm bi, and my best friend isn't and I thought I was over being attracted to her. But since she broke up with her fiance, I keep having these sexual dreams about her, And thinking about her all the time, I have known her for 12 years and I know she isn't into bi relationships, but I don't know how mucuh longer I can take this.Should I tell her how I feel..or just try to disconnect from her?
2007-02-14 21:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by partygirlcass 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i only can help u to tell her darling because the same story happened with me i told her a darling and she smiled
2007-02-14 22:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by i am not a lovely girl i am cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know she isn't into same-sex relationships, so what would be the point of telling her you're sexually attracted to her? Other than to put an end to a 12-year friendship? Keep your lips zipped, be grateful to have a fantastic friend, and look for a romantic partner elsewhere.
2007-02-15 05:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your bi nature didn't contribute to her breaking with her fiance and hence, trying to avoid you. I'll strongly advise you to forget about that gurl and find someone else who's bi like yourself. It may be a painful decision but that's the best I think you can do for now. You may contact me through my profile if you need a further discussion. Cheers and best of luck.
2007-02-15 06:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect her, and be truthful to yourself, have you been her friend for twelve years, because you might fulfill your fantasy? or are you really a friend who geniuely respect the friendship, depending on your answer to these question, will you find your answer. You have to be a friend to have a friend..,,,,Although Bi is real common it's consider wrong in the eyes of your Maker..... Good Luck with the Truth
2007-02-15 07:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to decide if you want her in your life or not.After 2 years she would have given you some sort of sign that she was at least curious.Sex is easy to find but good friendships are much harder.Please don't do anything....especially while she is getting over a break up.Be there as her friend
2007-02-15 05:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by maggie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her darling. By the way you have put up a beautiful photograph, is it u . If yes ,then why u r interested in girls. There would be enough bous in queue for bombshell like u.
2007-02-15 05:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your own advice, keep it to yourself. You know what happens when you cross the line.
2007-02-16 12:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Greyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her.try to get away from her.find a man and get close to him.try not to think about her .if u do,try to do something like cooking,singin.etc.
2007-02-15 05:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to have to find some way to tell her or deal with it, it's not something you can just forget.
2007-02-16 07:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her.
2007-02-15 07:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋