I am staying in my ex-husband's house with my daughter while he has moved to another state due to job reasons.
I have a cell phone through Cingular. My ex-husband is asking me change my cell phone plan so that it is a family plan and we get the discount through his new company.
I said yes at first, but now do not want to change my cell phone plan. I have responded to his e-mail by saying that I am NOT interested in changing my cell phone plan and that he should instead plan to take care of his cell phone independently.
Now he will make me feel guilty like I am the enemy of the house and that I do not want to save money. My point is that I am his ex-wife and do not want to be entangled with him even if it means saving money.
How do I respond to his pressure and guilt trip?
2007-02-14 20:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are paying for it, you can have whatever plan you want. If he is paying for it, you should change plans. If you want to keep your plan and you are not paying for it, get a job and pay for it yourself.
2007-02-14 20:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by buebla 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You really shouldn't be staying in that house of his, it's almost like giving him a false hope. I don't blame you for not waiting to be on the same phone plan as him it's just another tie you would have with him. Even though you two will always be connected cause you have a daughter there's no reason why you need to be on a family plan with him and save him money. I really think you should also move out and cut THOSE kind of ties with him asap it sounds like it may be giving him a false sense of hope. He may want to get back together with you, watch your back and stay independent!
2007-02-14 20:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My point is that I am his ex-wife and do not want to be entangled with him even if it means saving money."
You don't want to be entangled with him, but you are living in his house? Seems like you pick and choose what entangled means.
Are you paying for your cell phone plan yourself or is he?
If he is, then tough luck. Go on the family plan with him.
2007-02-14 22:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by pa_browneyedgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out. You are staying in his house. Nice guy to allow his ex to stay there. He is just trying to save all of you money. You have, however said it very eloquently ,so repeat what you wrote to him and tell him you do not want to hear it any more.
2007-02-14 20:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actual have a plan with at&t and Im on the kinfolk plan (w/ 2 strains) w/ limitless texting and limitless nights and weekends and we pay round $one hundred and twenty a month, i have finished my analyze and also you cant pay below $one hundred with a kinfolk plan w/ limitless texting and minutes.
2016-11-28 04:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either let him help you or move out. Plain and simple.
2007-02-14 21:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋