My wife and I are married for just over a year and initially our love was great but always felt she needed more, two weeks ago she told me her previous partner was at least 10". I am just over 7.5" and now feel I am wasting my time. I am interested to know what does it feel like for a woman to have experienced a man this large as my wife is now obviously missing out on.
2007-02-14 20:25:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think you two should even be discussing the size of an ex. It has nothing to do with your relationship. When you start rehashing and bringing up things like that, it all goes downhill. If she is judging you based on the size of your member and not the size of your love and respect, she's not worth your 7.5''!
2007-02-14 20:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by buebla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my friend there are several things you can do
I if she is dissatisfied then talk it over and suggest that you don't have sex until she shrinks her size after about a month or two things will get smaller for her and she will learn satisfaction, and the fact that a little bit of a little bit is better than nothing, next she can help you grow and like a body builder needs exercise then she can exercise you and you can exercise her and don't get out the HOLY water, that was a little joke, and finally they have pills that can help so they say on TV I haven't tried it, so I can't say for sure, and there is the operation, But most of all I think that was very insensitive that she would compare instead of being happy
2007-02-15 05:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by MinO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly seems your insecure now that you know what you know, but if you two had sex before getting married she knew exactly what she was getting, and obviously if she didnt feel fulfilled or didnt love the total package of what you offered she wouldnt be there....Don't let this become an issue in your mind, it will eventually affect your relationship.... Good Luck
2007-02-15 05:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you it wont matter, and by the way ,she is so rude to tell you that, man that really hurts, my ex was a 10 but my husband is only 6 however i never told him that, it would kill him if i turn around and tell him, thats really not fair.as long as i have an orgasm at the end i dont really care about the size!!
2007-02-15 04:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so far as i am concern women should feel happy in husbands arms i don't know if it is right to get in to a second relationship as for me i am satisfy with what i get from my husband but as women should not compare her past relationship or comment about it at all i did not do it as my husband is my first at my last love no one can be greater that him because relationship for us is a long time journey it only ends when our life gets over but don't worry just go ahead and keep her happy and one more thing for me is sex is enjoyed only with one person and that is life partner .if at all had a second time it does not work very well.
2007-02-15 04:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by %0oi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not very nice. How did that conversationcome about? I bet that made you feel terrible. What kind of a woman says that sort of thing? Just remember its not the size but how you use it that counts. Speak to her and show her that size really doesnt matter.
2007-02-15 06:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not missing out on it. As strange as it sounds, it is just her way of telling you that she is worried that she is not good enough for you in bed and the other women before her were better. Try to assure her that she is the best ever and always will be, and things will improve.
2007-02-15 04:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your wife was very wrong in comparing you to others because it is not the size at all because I experienced the best sex I have ever had with my husband because I have had allot of orgasm with him leaves me so exhausted he is 7.5" also. if she really loves you she would not campare you to anyone else
2007-02-15 04:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size does not matter. It is how you use it that counts!!! Don't be so insecure dude, show your wife deep passion and make her happy. You've got enough to work it!!!! Good Luck
2007-02-15 04:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats sad that ur wife needs more.....its good that u both r open to ur relationship n talk about it...but ....as a woman myself..if m in love ..i wudnt need more .as the past is past...my present is my husband..n i wud b happy newayz...if not iwud let him know n tel him wat more i want....yes...that it...
2007-02-15 04:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋