i am in love with a girl and want to marry with her but my parents dont agree with that girl ,what should i do

Answer 1

All you can do, follow your heart. If it is true love and there is no uncertainty about her being the one for you for the rest of your life then you shouldn't pass it by. Family will come around once they see how happy you are with her over time. Sometimes they just have to be proved wrong. No matter what just follow your heart.
-NmD!

Answer 2

Do what your heart tells you to do. If you love this woman, marry her. After all it isn't our parents we spend the rest of our lives with, it's our spouse.

I was involved with a man of another race, a man my mother wouldn't give the time of day. But, I'm a grown woman and this is my soulmate, so I married him anyway. Of course there was a chance she would never accept him. There was even a chance I would lose my inheritance. But none of that mattered to me. I had to do what was right for ME. Now, we're about to celebrate our 1st anniversary next month and my mother has accepted him like the son she never had, because he's good to me and she's been forced to get to know him or lose me for good. Ironically, he actually talks to her/spends time with her more often than I get to because of my work schedule! lol

Answer 3

It would depend on what their objections are, are they reasonable? Just remember that your parents may see something you don't. It will not hurt to hear them out, let them state their opinion and give their reasons. You are the one dating her, and may be able to enlighten them. But lets face it, they don't call them rose colored glasses for nothing. Be willing to accept their observations if they are true issues. You are discussing the rest of your life here. Are these things that you can deal with? Don't expect her to change, getting married is like shopping on E-Bay, what you get is in AS-IS condition. The decision is ultimately yours, get as much information as you can.

Answer 4

You don't say why they don't like her, and if you don't know then you should ask them. And you should be open minded enough to think about whether their concerns have merit. Most likely, your parents think they are doing what's right for you even if you disagree with them. Ultimately the choice is yours since it's your life. You should do what you think is right for you to do, irrespective of what anyone else says.

Answer 5

It is not up to your parents it is up to you no one else my husbands mom was the same with me at first and then I gave her a grandchild that changed things. you are going to spend the rest of your life with her and no your parents if she makes you happy and the feeling is mutual then ask her to marry you.

Answer 6

alot of people have problems when it comes to who they chose to marry, i dont but it is very common, don't let your family come between the bond you have, mabey one day after you 2 get married they will relize how perfect you are for eachother and it will be okay, and u will not have any issues ................hope this helps

i understand that your family means alot to you but if they love you they will undrestand and they will love her to

Answer 7

Give them more of a chance to know her. But if they still don't come around, then maybe you'll have to marry without their blessing.

Answer 8

Ultimately the decision is yours to make. You should let your family get to know her more and understand what you see in her but even so YOU are the one who will have her forever not them. Sure it matters to you that they see eye to eye with you but they cant dictate to you who should and shouldnt be with.

Answer 9

try talking to your parents. listen to what they have to say, be open minded about it, then tell them how you really feel. after that, decide on what actions to take.

Answer 10

Just ignore them.