People say it's the genitals that define your sexuality. Like if your dating someone with a penis, regardless to if you see the person as a female, then your in a Gay relationship. Doesn't matter how girly or effeminate the guy is. Even if he is a Trandsgendered (male to female) woman, your still considered gay or at least bi.
Here's my question: what if a Trans woman was dating a bological woman? What if the bio woman sees the Trans chick as a female in everyway accept for the penis? What if they both truly feel they are lesbians, & this is a lesbian relationship? It's certainly not a straight relationship since the Bio woman isn't involved with the Trans woman's manly physical & mental qualities.
If they are lesbians, then if a Trans female was with a guy, & the guy feels in everyway this is a bio woman, & thats why he's with her, isn't he then straight, & the trans woman is a straight woman? If not, then the first couple mentioned is really a straight couple.
Thoughts?
2007-02-14 19:33:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
boo: But if we do away with one label, you might as well d away with all labels. If we do that, it'd be very hard to communicate without words. So I think labels are valid, but I also think that labels being usd poorly is the problem. So here, Im trying to understand the logic of these labels, and what defines sexuality.
2007-02-14 20:29:05 · update #1
The people in this category are going to have trouble answering this question. If you re post it in the gay/lesbian/trans gender section you may find more people that can relate to your question.
2007-02-14 23:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you analyze too much - a relationship is a relationship it doesnt need a label
2007-02-15 03:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋