This chapter started before 3 years ago , I thought that after some time it will be automatically closed ; so I didnt took an positive action. Now he has also started making financial problems to me. ( I am a house-wife) He is too conscious but he behaves like nothing happened . I wanted to keep a detective behind him but I thooght that they can sell the proof to my husband by taking more money. How can I catch him ? That woman lives in other town , but I got the information that now she is here from a month . i THINK THAT THEY R DEFINETLY MEETING EACH OTHER. Please tell me.
2007-02-14 19:23:46 · 12 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would DEFINITELY hire a detective! He may be expensive, but having peace of mind is priceless!
2007-02-14 19:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by coconutnoodle 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
is this all you have to do is play games. if you haven't seen anything then you don't know for sure. You need to start being a wife and not a detective that's probably why he has a friend because you are not a friend or a wife. Get some help look at yourself take some responsibility for the relationship and yourself.
2007-02-14 19:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get a divorce, if you are so sure, your jealousy an insecurity isn't going to make him stop, so what if you catch him? What then? You will be more messed up than what you are now. If he is sleeping with another woman, you need to be strong enough to leave or make him leave...either way I know you think you can make him love you and not want to cheat on you, but in reality it does not work like that. I see this ending badly for you.
2007-02-14 19:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady, you're greater beneficial than you think of. This guy is treating you incorrect, despite if he's dishonest or no longer. (and confident, a woman constantly is conscious) you may cope with a divorce, yet you p.c. a help equipment of acquaintances and kinfolk to lean on. don't be afraid to settle for help from others. you will get to a factor the place you are able to stand on your individual 2 ft and could be a proud, self sufficient lady, freed from mistreatment. you will come to appreciate your self and be a lots happier individual. perchance you may get your spice production biz back ultimately. whether you do no longer finally end up divorced, in case you arise and insist appreciate from him, your existence will advance. he's barely going to wreck out with what you permit him harm out with.
2016-10-02 04:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know 100% that he is being unfaithful then you don't need to worry about how your going to catch him red handed you need to leave him. You can't love someone that is cheating on you that has been walking all over you and cheating on you! You need to file for divorce you need to be a strong independent women and stand up for yourself don't let this man walk all over you! You need to show him that you know what's up and your NOT going to stand for it. Get a divorce, ask your family/friends for help if you need some support or a place to stay! You need to be Strong and leave him it may be hard now but in the long run you will be much happier.
2007-02-14 19:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Megz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On a night that you suspect your husband is going to be w/ her, borrow a friends car and park outside of his girlfriend's home and wait for you husband to go in or come out if he's already there. Confront him coming out/going in to this woman's house and he won't be able to deny his affair. Why don't you just leave him, better yet why don't you put him out!
2007-02-14 19:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jay K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really sad and heartwrenching when you think or feel that your spouse is two timing you.in reality that is no surprise,in fact its pretty common.you hear or read about it and the answer to that,they say,forget about him,you deserve better,or get rid of him and move on.kick his *** out to where the sun don't shine.sweetheart,if your question is legitimate,you do need to prepare yourself for the worse.at the same time you just have to confront him,ask him and tell him how you feel.if your gut feeling still tells you he is cheating,tho he denies,then you go get that help.bear in mind,there's consequenses with things we do.,
2007-02-14 20:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by spunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire the private detective. They can produce photographic or videotaped evidence if he's having an affair. Check their references if you're worried about them selling the evidence to your husband.
2007-02-14 19:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not cheap you are and you deserve everything thats is going to happen to you,,,, your a loser he s a winner he will overcome and you will be left in the cold because you are stupid
2007-02-14 19:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him you want another girl involved into a three way..and see who he brings home..if its her..busted...and then kick their butts
2007-02-14 19:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋