I think love after marriage is better. Your view.....
2007-02-14 19:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by arthi j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes I agree with you. But westerners may not understand the concept and all the men there are getting it before marriage and they dont want to get married because if they get divorced they should pay alot to the spouses. If they are getting it free why will they prefer marrying.
2007-02-15 02:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♣♣♣F♣♣♣ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference ??
Is not love a marriage of souls ??
Is not marriage a love between two minds and bodies??
Whether we marry or not, the very fact that we have fallen in love, makes us spiritually married to each other.... !!
Whether initially love each other not, the very fact that we are married together means there is love between us. You cannot escape it. However much you may fight with each other, however much you may disagree, how many times over you may divorce remarry and re-divorce..... the fact remains once you are married, some love for your spouse lurks somewhere in your sub-conscious mind....
But the Greatest love is the Love for God. Human love has a shallow foundation. Unless our love is anchored in god-realization it amounts to nothing....it will not last....
2007-02-15 03:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Tapan Kumar Pradhan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone in here will say, how are you going to marry someone and not love them, well be serious though, security, among many other things are far more important to people, they just hope as time goes everything else falls into place. After all you can love someone and get married then not love them anymore all the same. I think friendship, then love is the real approach; marrige will come by itself when it just becomes the natural thing to do. Your ability to communicate effectively with each other will then define your marrige.
2007-02-15 03:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what? If you at least THINK you love someone then why you would marry them is beyond me! If you believe you can learn to love someone, do you have a big surprise coming! And to the poster EZMZ, dear, that is NOT what your uncle means. The old adage he spouts is about something else entirely!
2007-02-15 03:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you're tryin' to ask is
Marriage after sex or sex after marriage...
In my country here (Indonesia) we're all will saying that sex after marriage is the right thing to do... But, in the fact.. lately i found out.. everything's went out like marriage after sex...
But, in my opinion marriage after sex isn't that bad, it's nice to get know each other closer as long as you don't f*** others a lot...
^_^ SunshiNe
2007-02-15 03:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marriage after love is the way it's suppose to be,but,love after marriage almost always is everlasting.
2007-02-15 03:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about love. Marrage complicates things.
2007-02-15 03:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by BooBam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you being provocative. Let the debate begin.
2007-02-15 03:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course-----my uncle says "why buy a cow when the milks free?"
2007-02-15 03:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then what do you mean by LOVE?
2007-02-15 03:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋