can one live and love his wife after knowing her after marital affair.can she ditch again.?

Answer 1

Yes... If you have real love for her and complete forgiveness in your heart. Yes... she can do it again.
Love is Risk and it's never certain. Forgivness is a beautiful thing...

Answer 2

That is something only you can answer, you have to really think about it and figure out if YOU can forgive HER for being unfaithful, and that's a decision only YOU can make. I do believe that people make mistakes, I honestly do believe that but you have to think about this. Was it just a one time thing? Was it an on going affair?? Do you truly feel that you can forgive her and not hold a grudge against her? I would take a break for now and give yourself some time to really think about how you feel, how your life would be if you tried to patch things up and if you just said goodbye and started over fresh. This is more than likely one of the hardest decisions you will ever have to make. The only real advice I can give you is to make sure whatever choice you make you are 100% sure that it's the right choice cause the ball is really in your court now you have to think about how you feel. I would also suggest having a long long long talk with your wife and finding out why she felt she had to be with another man talking things out together will help as well even if you chose you to leave her, it will give both of you some closure which is always needed in any relationship. Good luck!

Answer 3

Understand the circumstances in which she took such a deceiptful move. If the situations were such that any person would have done it then you can forgive her once. And after forgiving please dont doubt her again .... just forget it as a nightmare. Give her freedom and behave like her best friend and I bet she will not even think of ditching you again. But before you take her back get her Hepatitis, HIV test and VD test done.

Answer 4

depends on her level of remorse, and her willingness to acknowledge that what she did hurt u. most of the time people do still love their wives, but don't want to get their hearts broken again so they don't choose to go back into something that hurt them. she can always do the same thing over again, when ever she pleases. we will never love that person the same way again, at first we will go back into it, feeling so smug that we won them back, and we must be the better one,and that they surely learned from their mistake, but most of the time the same old problems do tend to crop up again, over and over again, and the cheater usually decides that since things are not the way they want that it is a reason to cheat again. personally the feeling that i once felt and the trust would be gone, and i don't think i could do it again, as i would always remember what they did to me, and it would probably get thrown back up to the offending party if there were a bad fight. just couldn't help doing it.

Answer 5

think why she ditch u just blaming on other is no good just look in ur self u may found ur answer.main things which u have to think
time
care
love
100% dedication
sex life
kids
regards
apperciation
outing
finance
u find ur self in command then ask where are u not able to give her satisfation

Answer 6

I am still doing but then we do not have physical intimacy for about 10 yrs now. You might be wondering why? but then i had to think about my daughters.
As regarding to her ditching again .. i think she has learned her lesson and she would not do anything to jeopardise her life now.

Answer 7

Did she have an affair with you or on you? I am a firm believer of "Once a cheater, always a cheater!" I never trust anyone who cheats!

Answer 8

if someone cheated on you once they'll do it again, because they don't really care about you and if you forgive them they think that no matter what they do you'll never leave them and they'll keep screwing you over... people who cheat aren't trustworthy partners so if your in this situation walkaway and find yourself somebody better...

Answer 9

Live, Love and pull on the peaceful happy marital life. Forget and forgive to escape awaiting severe problems and unbearable difficulties. Evaluate her merits alone ignoring a single demerit. If questioned or restrained, she may leave matrimonial house to bring many troubles.
People advertise and publish public notices in Dailies before purchasing a flat or house site but do not probe or call for others' comments or objections upon such marriage. They marry calmly and quietly without enquiring the past and present love/sexual affairs of would be spouse, later suffer & put others to sufferings and consequently seek divorce.
Divorces should be avoided and the spouses should try their best to adjust, forgetting and forgiving the mistakes of others and tolerating misdeeds & mistakes. Divorce not only separates spouses but two families as well and creates much problems for children. After divorce, if they remain without another marriage, they may spoil and pollute the society.
In India, there is no concept of divorce among Hindus. Their marriages are performed between their souls (not bodies) in heaven (not upon earth) in presence of 330 million gods and goddesses. Indian Government enacted Hindu Marriage Act in 1955 and created a chance for divorce to be granted by secular courts. Despite such legislations and courts' divorce judgments/decrees, they wedlock remains intact being eternal, everlasting and unbreakable even in future unlimited births. Despite marriage with others after divorce, wife continues Ardhangini (half body) of her former husband and he continues her Pati Parmeshwar.
In Islam divorce is the most worst among permissibles. In unavoidable circumstances only there may be a divorce.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.

. All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.

Answer 10

once a ******* cheater is always a cheater