2007-02-14 18:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
weather it is just fantasy or not the key word is he is having sex.... if he wanted fantasy he should of said something to you and you guys did something to spark up your sex life. If he does it online what is going to stop him from having a fantasy IRL??? I would go get some counceling and see if you and him can get past this and if not I would file for divorce. remember once a cheater always a cheater
2007-02-14 19:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by jmoislhluear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely consider it disrespectful and hurtful. If it's hurting you, it's doing some damage. Do you want to stay with a person who does that? I think it would lead to grounds of accusing someone of hiding even more from you.
In your own opinion, do YOU think it's alright? Excluding any answers you may get here. It's a decision you need to make and talk to him about if it is seriously bothering you.
Good luck
2007-02-14 19:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As every one els i suspect i would also say yes. What he's telling you is you aren't giving him what he needs/wants. Which is wrong. If he feels he should go and find sex elsewere he should have talked about it with you first. Any sex without your partner is cheating. But like i said first talk about it in a calm manner and ask him why he did it and if there is something he feels lacks in you relationship. Rather fix the problem
2007-02-14 19:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. He married you so he could have sex with you and you ALONE. If he has fantasies he wants fulfilled, he should be fulfilling them with you, his mate for life. If he continues, you need to either take him to a maraige counselor or leave his cheating @ss.
2007-02-14 19:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would, and this is why...
actions are actions no matter where they are and in what form. just because he is not having sex with someone else face to face, does not mean that he is not having sex. the form is not important. the fact is that it is happening.
this is a serious issue and needs to be discussed, especially if it is not ok with you. whatever happens in your relationship must be ok with everyone involved, otherwise it will be your undoing.
2007-02-14 19:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by darthchaosdelicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just left my wife for living her fantasies online. It was harmless at first.....then she started going out and meeting the men she was fantasizing with. It wont stay online...trust me.
2007-02-14 20:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by dozerdriver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know if I'd classify that as an affair, but he's definitely not respecting you or your marriage vows.
2007-02-14 19:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah me neither, fantasies can become realities, it's not respectful at all man
2007-02-14 19:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...yes! plz don't b clueless and all 'blinded by love'. leave the bastard if he's doing **** like that and also, u wouldn't b asking this question if somewhere deep down u didn't already think this was cheating.
2007-02-14 19:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by ~ B_e_K_z ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good thing and your husband is making excuses.
2007-02-14 19:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋