I am 32 and I just met a man who is awesome in every way except one - he's 49. I can't seem to get over this fact. Part of me thinks i'm being too picky but another part says i need someone that's not going downhill as far as sexual stamina is concerned. I'm in my sexual peak and I want this man to be like a 25 year old in the sack, which is impossible. What would you do?
2007-02-14 17:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by carolynator 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
I've been with him once so far and when he's done it once, he's done for the night.
2007-02-14 18:14:12 · update #1
You Got a Tough One !!! I Married a Woman 20 years younger than me. we had been going together for 7 years, needless to say we knew each other Inside Out !!! We had Discussed this very Problem---Looking at the Future of our sex lives !!! She is Gone Now and all I can say is, I Would NOT Have Changed a Thing ! There were times when I Was Less Potent a Lover, I Admit that--But you Want to Know a Great Thing!-At that moment Her Compassion and Love Conquered ALL !!! If you Really Love This Person Age is Minor, Stamina is Uppermost in your mind Since that is where your drives Come From at present.Cupid Says: if we are Compassionate we Find a way to make our loved ones as Happy as we can without sacrificing too much of ourselves,--That Said DIG IN GIRL!!!-Signed---JEM
2007-02-14 18:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On principle I have no issues with age differences in relationships and in fact tend to be attracted to older men. However, that doesn't mean that having an older partner is good for everyone. Do you know if his libido is actually going downhill, or is that just an assumption based on his age? How truly happy with him are you otherwise? I know you say he's 'awesome', but it's possible that this problem is sort of eclipsing others in your mind; after all, you said you just met him. And I might get some flack for saying this, but if he can't satisfy you sexually and it truly becomes a huge problem would the two of you be comfortable with an open relationship so you can get what you need elsewhere? As a warning, if you do pursue an open relationship make sure you are very respectful to each other about it because just like age differences it definitely doesn't work for everyone. If it makes either of you insecure it's much better not to try [erring on the side of caution and all that].
2007-02-14 18:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by melis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At our age (I'm 35), our partner's age doesn't matter too much as long as they are over 18. As for his being 49 you have to remember that, as far as sex, many older men are not only awesome in bed but have great stamina and have a lot of knowledge as to how to please a woman.
Don't be so quick to judge this man unless you have already experienced all he has to offer. Then, if he doesn't live up to your expectations, you need to move on.
2007-02-14 18:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by LDYDRGN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is up to you. But if you have all of those wants maybe you should make a spreadsheet or a hand written list of you wants, hopes, and what this man has out of those. Put a check mark neck to the similarities and if he doesn't have very many; maybe it's time to reconsider?
2007-02-14 18:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by KelBean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I'm 27 and I'll help you out with that but seriously, is it love or lust you are looking for because as love is concerned, you shouldn't even have to ask but lust is a totally different thing. You need to pick up a young guy with lots of energy to keep going and going and going.... like the Energizer bunny.
2007-02-14 18:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older the youngest of the two are, the less the age difference matters. At 32, you could marry someone in their early 60s and get away with it.
Sorry, I didn't read the part about sex. Yeah, that is concerning.
2007-02-14 18:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by boats mcgee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
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Regards
2014-09-13 02:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though my Dad was 17years older than my mom they married for life However if you are looking for a stud & sex is extremely important to you Dump the 49 year old
2007-02-14 18:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by hobo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, many woman would give anything to find someone you can describe as 'awesome'....
Age is no barrier, and I really think you need to get over it!
2007-02-14 18:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,m 60 and the wife is45 and we have no slow downs, so get in the sack and learn some new tricks, you may never look back at the younger guys again
2007-02-14 18:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Gumbo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋