because in my experience with my friends...
there's no freedom to choose our own way...
some of my friends are homosexual...and no matter how hard they try to be a normal person, it's just like hell...
me, myself, I just don't put married as my important priority..
I'm 25 now...
any input ???
2007-02-14 17:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take your time, you don't have to rush into marriage if you are not ready yet........
2007-02-14 17:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I have been with the same guy for seven years. We are not married. We came out to California together and live in a studio apartment and are poor as hell. We are paying our student loans and rent, and that's about all we have money for. But we are still together. No peice of paper is going to change our lives. We love each other and we know that we want to be together. We are not getting married until we deserve it. When we can support each other. I don't understand how people can just get married without knowing how to support each other, both mentally as well as financially. Most people jump into it and never realize what they are doing. Marraige should be something you deserve, not something you just decide on a whim. And getting married just because the girl is pregnant is crazy. I have seen more people basically kill each other when they are forced to marry because of a baby. The situation is ten times worse when the child resents the parents because they are living a lie. Children aren't stupid. In fact, most are more intelligent than adults I know.
2007-02-15 02:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by buebla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids are all in their 20s,26 and 22 and I dont encourage them to get married.Who ever made that up as the rule?I dont discourage them either bit I have not seen nor either have they one good example including my own marriage.Life is to be happy marriage doesnt automatically bring this.I think its way easier to live together cause in a way you really want to be there you are not made or bound to be there because of a liscence.I have seen the change in people after marrying its like all the sudden they feel trapped.Its also way cheaper than having to pay for a divorce.I think everyone should just do what truly makes them happy.there is no right way.
2007-02-15 08:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by maryann c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you are ready. I have had 5 different proposal in my life and I did not get married until I felt right and that was recently and I am 30. Don't rush, watch out with the homo friends those are spirits and you don't want them to rub off on you. we are still in a society where homosexual people are looked down on. And if you read the Bible any bible about Sommarah and Gomorrah you know God destroyed those cities.
2007-02-15 02:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mofabolist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has to get married. They do it because they have found someone that they want to share their lives and their love with.
2007-02-15 01:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one HAS to get married at least not here in the U.S.
2007-02-15 02:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋