but unfortunately my family not accepted him because of his family baground and I love my family and don't want to do any thing against my family I am very confused what should I do.
2007-02-14 17:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by ruchi s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but unfortunately my parents not accept him because of his family background. I don't know what should I select we spent five year and we well know to each other and he is really crazy about me he saying if your are not in my life my life will end. He never spend a day without see me. We have decided we are living as a friend to whole life if our parents not accept our relation or never marry with any because we don't want to break heart of any one because we will never able to give love to other person in our life.
2007-02-14 21:42:28 · update #1
what should u do... mmmmmmmmmmmmm....
ya u can do one thing.... live it all on upparwala(God)
2007-02-14 20:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you love someone without completely having your family mad! It's not like you're living with him or getting married right now! They just need to get to know him better! Trust me my family had a change of heart with me current boyfriend who was in the Pen for three years and jail a couple before that! Your family your past and the experiences are the things that make the person who they are now and the one that you love!
2007-02-15 02:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remind your family that you are with him not them.
It is hard as a parent to watch our children grow and not want to guide them at all times. You do not have to be rude or mean spirited about it.
My husband was told by his sister and a few others that he could do better than me, I am glad he did not listen to her or anyone else for that matter. We will celebrate out 20th anniversary this year and look forward to many more. His sister has told him since then I am the best thing to happen to him and has even apologized to me for her remarks in the past.
2007-02-15 02:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by desiree c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to someone who has a shady, family background. Fortunately for me his upbringing did not completely shape him. He also is very caring, I am glad I did not let my family's opinions stand in our way. We are still happily married, despite his family's background.
2007-02-15 01:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand its not an easy decision to make.
But if u really feel he is a nice guy n u feel urself n ur future secured with him then go ahead. Even our parents want us to be happy n if they will see u happy then i m sure they would forgive u.
God bless u
2007-02-15 04:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by prerna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit longer and see what happens. He might win your family over.
2007-02-15 02:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think about your family they will do best for u
2007-02-15 02:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by taylor w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen.. you gotta choose now... you wanna live happily .. or you want to please your parents and marry to whomever they show..
you have to make this blunt choice.. no other go...
2007-02-15 01:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋