is it ever okay for a guy to hit a woman?

Question

what if she it him first real hard and injured him????? would it be okaty then??? or what if she threatened his kid with a gun???

o yeah....happy valentine's day....(almost forgot)

pardon the spelling

Answer 1

ABSOLUTELY!! IN SELF DEFENSE (AS A MATTER OF LIFE OR DEATH) ONLY!!!!

Answer 2

ok, so, here's the deal--

To all you women out there who say you don't get treated as well as men, and you don't get the same oppurtunities (so on and so forth), you need to stop complaining. You all used to be viewed as lesser beings than men, but there is no doubt that you are treated equally, if not better now. You have all the same rights, and can do anything that a man could do, provided the right physical stature, etc. With that said, even though some women complain about equal treatment, it comes down to a man being a gentleman or not when the subject of hitting comes up. Men don't call the abuse hotline when women slap them, but as soon as a man touches a woman in a way that she finds "uncomfortable", that man's life is going to be a living hell. By doing this, those women are saying that it is okay for a woman to hit a man, but not for a man to hit a women, which, in my eyes, is not equal. The thing is, unless they strike me first, i will never, ever, grab or hit a woman with an intent to hurt them.

To finally answer your question, it is okay to hit a woman, but it is up to the guy wether he hits the woman without her doing anything, or the woman does something to the man first.

Answer 3

I have an example (and it's the only time Ive hit a woman)

In high school I was playing pool with a friend of mine. I was ready to sink the ol 8 ball, but the decided to distract me by waving her stick in my face. i stood up and told her to stop because she was going to hit me in the eye. I got ready to take the shot again... you know what happened? She pokes me in the eye with her stick. Split second- I cracked her in the side of the head (with my hand, not my stick!). Felt like an A$$ after.

But even she said she didn't blame me for my reaction.

You shouldn't do it, but most people understand when I tell that story.

Answer 4

NO, it is never a good enough reason to hit a girl. If this girl threatened you and your kid then choose to leave them. She is putting your kid in danger, and that is way more serious the a guy hitting a girl.

Answer 5

Although I'm a chauvinist, It is never justified to hit a woman, even if she has screwed you of your career, money or whatever else you have. Society and the judicial system do not look at that very kindly.

Answer 6

"A man should never hit a lady, but if she hits him then she is no longer a lady". I believe if she hit him hard or injured him and is a ***** then she deserves a good hard hit, with a closed fist. If she is threatening someone with a gun then hit her too. "Men should not hit women but they can always shoot them"

Answer 7

It is only okay to hit someone (male or female) if they have a mosquito on them. Even then you will get objections from Buddhists.

No way to make everyone happy!

Answer 8

yes it is if a woman puts her self in the position of a man yes,if shes like 90 pounds then no,what she going to do? best thing to do is right before you hit her dial 911 and let them record her acting crazy,it will keep you out of jail.I warned my g/f about that i promised to never hit her.unless she hit me, and it's worked

Answer 9

No It's never alright for a man or woman to hit on each other.

Answer 10

Never! Unless....she was trying to kill you, and if that was the case her argument in court would still trump yours b/c she is a woman. Sorry thats just the way the justice system leans!

Answer 11

If it's in self defense, then yes, it's okay

If you believe that your life is in danger, or your child is in danger-- then does it really matter whether or not it's a man or a woman?

Do what you need to protect yourself without resorting to unnecessary and gratuitous violence.