Met him over a year ago, we broke up once maybe because of my insecurities, after 7 months we met again. He has another relationship and so do i but we tried to give our relationship another chance..everything falls into places except for fear that someday hed leave me for another because i may not look as young as he is 10 years from now. I do love him and he fulfill me completely.
2007-02-14 17:10:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im 36 and he's 26
2007-02-14 17:23:57 · update #1
as long as hes 18
2007-02-14 17:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-23 23:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hope he is above legal age (18?) or he may just be with you for the fun of being with an older woman.
After that, if you feel great with him, if he treats you right, if you two have great communication, conversations and ideas exchange, then be with him. Of course that is if he feels the same with you.
Now, for him fulfilling you...I think you may need to reconsider. A relationship in my opinion is not being with someone who completes you. You need to be "complete" on your own already before being with someone else. You need to know who you are, what your values are, where you stand, only then, when you meet someone who is like you or unlike you but accepts you that way (and you accept them as well), can you have the fondation for a lasting relationship. If you hope for him to fulfill you, then you are placing too much expectations on him figuring out who you are, what you want....
He will never be able to complete you. When you are complete, then having him with you will only make the trip through life more intense and pleasurable, and it will be the same for him being with you.
You will not look as young in 10 years...he wont look as young either. But yes, I can see what you are pointing at. I do believe he knows your age, and he knows you will get older, just like him. If he truly loves you, then it is what is inside you he loves, not your looks. My boyfriend is younger that me as well, and I have asked him what will happen when I am older and not so good looking and he said it doesnt matter. I can only trust him, and I do (I do not trust easily, esp. not guys).
Ppl will judge you (they accept an older man dating a young girl, but the reverse isnt true, unfortunately, ref. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutchner), but what do you care?! This man you love, and who loves you, will care for you even when you are older.
2007-02-14 17:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Skyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your fears. I dated a man 10 years my junior and it didn't work. He wanted children and mine were grown.
I now date a may 6 years younger and his children are almost grown and live with their mother. He and I have so much in common and want the same for our lives.
The age doesn't make a difference, as the gap closes later in age. It might have made some difference if we had we been very young. It now becomes like any relationship... where you share the same vision for life and you like the person in whom you will share it with.
2007-02-14 17:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, and he truly loves you, and fulfills you, then it's right. Maybe you should talk to him about your fears. How else is he going to know how you feel? Maybe he has fears that YOU don't know about. That'll be a good opportunity for you both to get things out in the open. Age should not be a factor, if the love is true. Don't be scared, it'll be okay.
2007-02-14 17:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hawkster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get confidence in yourself..and in the relationship ..
There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship with him..even if he is 10 years younger.
Thats the age difference my granparents have.
You just need to have confidence.. and things should work out.
Goodluck
2007-02-14 17:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you all get along, leave the insecurities and go for it...just because he's 10 younger in age, doesn't mean much these days.
2007-02-14 17:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.if this guy has already entered relationship then again he will not be true .later age matters if he is 10yrs younger.then maybe in further he may make conversation like you are younger to me and stuff this things will hurt you later .so go ahead find some one for your match sure you will enjoy your further with someone else who truly loves you forget this guy.enjoy your futher good luck
2007-02-14 17:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by %0oi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no bound.U know what only counted male understand it.My ex-bf was 2 yr younger to me.But after 1yr he said it is not possible.His family won't accept it.only for family he left me.I love him so much.I know he also loves me.$months running i still couldn't come out from this shock.
All this depend on both of u.If u want it then go ahead.But remember one thing the path won't go smoothly.U two have to be strict
2007-02-14 17:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Blue flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to worry, in ten years he will be looking alot older too. Ten years apart, thats okay. Look at Kurt Russell, ten years younger than Goldie Hawn. They been in love for years. She still has a bod that won't stop.
2007-02-14 17:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋