I finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...How would you feel about this guy after this converation...if he hadn't called you yet... Should I call him?
I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..
2007-02-14 16:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
CALL HIM!!!!!! he admitted to you that he's shy, and may not be confident to pursue an attractive female. maybe he's just one of those guys where you need to push him. but definately give him a call. set specific plans. go and get him.
good luck!
2007-02-14 16:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is most likely interested, at least somewhat bc he wouldn't tell u to call him and stuff if he didn't want to hang out with u and get to know u.
he's just bad at making plans, i have a lot of friends like that...its not personal its just how they are. you just have to make the plans and give him notice and most likely he'll come through. now if he constantly blows off your plans then thtas a different story.
2007-02-15 01:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes interested but it may just be for a booty call. bring up the topic some time but to make sure that he likes you for you and not what he thinks you might give him, let him know that it takes about 3 months before you sleep with a guy. if he's still game then its not about sex and you can go from there.
2007-02-15 00:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by hottie hot hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested, but he's also shy and unorganized. If you want to get with him, you'll have to take charge and reign him in. He'll actually appreciate you doing that, I promise.
2007-02-15 00:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him! this call can change both your lives... plus u dont want 2 stay home thinking "What if"
2007-02-15 00:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by KennyV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not really interested forget him
2007-02-18 23:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋