There is a girl I talk to and I told her finally that she is pretty and very nice and she thanked me for my honesty, but said she is currently in a happy relationship. Shall I be her friend still,I'd like to be. That is not rejection, she is just telling me her situation.
2007-02-14 16:43:33 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes! I have a the same kind of friendship with girl-friend of mine. She's in this relationship with this guy who I really don't like. Personally I don't know why she chose him instead of me. I guess it might be that I'm a good guy and she likes the bad guys so...that's her life.
Anyways, just becuase some girl that you like is in a relationship dosen't mean you can't be friends with her. Who knows if she breaks up with her b/f she'll notice that you are a caring and lovable guy and she'll fall in love for you BUT don't get your hopes up.
So in short. Be her friend...you'll never know what will come out of it.
2007-02-14 16:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you can still be friends. It sounds like she was being totally mature and honest with you. She is being respectful to her current boyfriend as well. She sounds like someone that would make a good friend. Now, If you are going into this friendship with a preconceived notion that you will eventually be her boyfriend or that you will be there, if and when, her current relationship fails and she will then fall into a romantic relationship with you then you are going into it with the wrong idea and only setting yourself up for heartache. If you truely want to be her friend then go for it. You can't have too many friends.
Good luck.
2007-02-14 17:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, be her friend and respect her current relationship. If that changes, she may look for a good friend whom values a relationship, and understands her.
2007-02-14 16:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by P. K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering how you feel about her, I wouldn't pursue her, even as a friend. Just by being in the picture, you could cause her to unknowingly come to you with her problems with her boyfriend when she should go to him instead.
2007-02-14 16:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Real Talk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, and you told her, being friends might get awkward, but hey? give it a go anyway, i wish you the world of luck. you could try to sabotage her relationship, no no, just joking!
2007-02-14 16:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ari J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be her friend, but you will basically be a doormat waiting for things to change, better to look for another girl that is not involved and be her friend.
2007-02-14 16:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
im in the same situation right now and things are still working out well
2007-02-14 16:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by jkskillz88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be friends if you're only hanging around in case she gets single one day. a guy who i thought was my best friend for years did that, and when i found out thats what he'd been waiting for, it ruined our friendship
2007-02-14 16:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have any self respect. Get on with your life if it's ment to happen it will.
2007-02-14 17:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by BooBam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes b/c if anything ever happened between her and her boyfriend, you will be there.
2007-02-14 16:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋