No card, flowers, gift nothing. I gave him a lovely personalized gift to him, I am a nice girlfriend why did he forget me.
2007-02-14 16:38:48 · 24 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Not even a call until after 5 today
2007-02-14 16:43:21 · update #1
Tell him that your'e bummed that you two missed the opportunity to have some special time together for Valentine's day and that you would like both of you to do something special for each other this coming weekend.
(This way he won't feel like you have your hand out, selfishly expecting him to throw down cash for you to celebrate a cheesy commercialized holiday.)
You cannot hint around with guys. They have to be told very directly what you expect and the sooner we ladies learn this the better off we will be! ;-) lol (It's true, though!!!!)
2007-02-15 07:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are certainly a lot of materialistic women/girls on here who say just because he didn't get anything means he doesn't care. I am married to a man who just doesn't see the point in "wasting" our money on things like candy, chocolate, flowers, etc. but I know that he loves me more than those things can express. Once I figured out that the gift thing just isn't his thing, I stopped worrying so much about getting him things. It's kind of relaxing not to have to find the "perfect" gift and instead to show him how much I love him through the rest of the year. And then we can save our money for the things we truly want (I.E. more expensive things) later on. We usually get each other a gift for like $200-$400 that is a combined b-day, Mother's Day, Valentine's Day, etc. gift and skip the cheesy pieces of junk that just take up room the rest of the year. I mean, after a while, how many teddy bears or whatever do you really need to take up room??? Maybe he just thinks like this.
2007-02-15 09:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys out there who don't get how much gifts mean to us sentimental ladies. I know, I have one of them. He's a great guy and our relationship is great, but he's clueless about the importance of gifts.
You have to take a step back and look at the rest of your relationship. Talk to your friends about it. Don't push the idea that you got him such a great gift and find out what they think of your relationship with him.
If your friends think that he's just one of those clueless guys, there's probably some hope for him. If, on the other hand, they think that he's trying to tell you something, then take the initiative and be the dumper rather than the dumpee.
Wishing you the best!
2007-02-14 16:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's day places a lot pressure on human beings to purchase flora or chocs for his or her companions which to me is faux, letting someone recognize you adore them should be something that occurs conventional no longer only on an afternoon we are informed to do it. Now you experience enable down because he did not purchase you something. I not in any respect celebrate Valentine's day with my husband because we instruct one yet another we care on a daily basis of the 365 days. examine such as your better 1/2 & tell him the way you experience, noticeably if he's doing this at Christmas to boot. He sounds selfish no longer even sending you a card at Christmas. yet to me it appears like he would not care about you or he does no longer manage you this way. unload him & discover someone who loves you for you. An ex is termed an ex because it really is an social gathering of what you ought to no longer have again in the destiny
2016-11-03 12:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything (at least for a couple of days) if you can help it. It's possible that he was low on cash, time or ideas.
There is always the possibility that he isn't worthy of you.
You didn't say how long you have dated, and maybe he thought that relationship wasn't that serious. I wish I could better answer your question, but you didn't give many details.
No matter what way it goes, keep in mind that you did what made you feel best by giving. I think that's the best part.
2007-02-14 16:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that it hurts you. Obviously, you've shown him how you think of V. Day as very special with your special gift. If he tells you that he didn't have much money, tell him that there are many inexpensive gifts (free ones too such as; back rubs, cooking a dinner for you, writing you a poem). It's about how you "feel" right? Remember, good communication equals good relationship!
If he says he's "just not into it", let him know that it sounds like "he's not into you".
2007-02-14 17:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by jamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear you havent got anything
my advice to you is to wait till later when you next see him see if he hasnt got you anything best thing to do is
communicate with him and ask him
dont go dumping him just yet there might be a good reason behind it and as other said he mite not believe in it as most couples out there thinks its just another scam of spending money!
also he mite be shy about it
or got no money
and if he treats you ok all the other times dont you think thats more important than one day that comes once a year?
COMMUNICATION is the best way!
2007-02-15 01:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by mangospassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't give us very much to go on.
i wouldn't mind if you would indulge me and read the love chapter in the holy bible. you'll find it by leafing to 1st Corinthians the entire chapter thirteen.
there has been times when i've done and said things along the same lines as you only to find, a little later, how mistaken i was. not a nice feeling.
the Beatles said it the best "all we are saying is give peace a chance".
2007-02-14 16:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many possibilities. He may have a bigger surprise for you or there might be an explanation to all this...maybe he had to attend something or he is busy that is why he did not call. Or just simply he will dump you soon...I'm sorry you felt bad on your special day for love...
2007-02-14 18:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by tintanboi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, not all people celebrate Valentine's day, he might be one of those people.
But suffice to say, if his treatment for you still stay the same, it's a good thing.
If you want more nicer treatment from him, I suggest you discuss it with him.
2007-02-14 21:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋