When i first entered college I was this very cheerful and smiley guy. I was shy around people I just met but opened up once I got to know people. I had a very goofy sense of humor and would do anything to get a laugh. Girls loved me. Over the years I have matured (or gotten bitter, not sure which one) due to failed relationships and other trials and tribulations of life, which I need not get in to. I have become a much quieter and reserved guy. I smile a lot less and am much more serious than I used to be. A few girls have been attracted to me (as the strong and silent type i've been told) but I no longer seem to have the magnetic personality I used to have 5 or 6 years ago. Whats happened to me? Is this is a downward spiral?
2007-02-14 16:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I hate to make your life into a saying but...when life hands you lemons, make lemonade. Try being more outgoing...channel your "old" self and pretend that it is your current self. Most of all, live like you have never been hurt...that way you never pass up on something that could be, for the anxiety of what could happen. Good Luck...go out there, and reclaim your life! :)
2007-02-14 16:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by nd721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insight is appreciated.
" Due to failed relationships and other trials and tribulations of life ", you are much quieter and reserved person or strong and silent type. Of course, you do not need to get into them, but they get in to you to work them out. Out of this work out you are much quieter, reserved, strong, and silent type. A few girls have been attracted to you. Your magnetic personality needs only one and that one needs to locate you after leave the past to past. This is upward spiral. You can do it without any particular personality..............
2007-02-14 17:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by peacemakers3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While personal mental health is always a challenging question, sometimes we try to figure that out instead of a possible underlying problem. Pay closer attention to your diet as your age progresses. Today in age we, as Americans, consume way too much sugar which is a contributing factor to most mental health problems and personality disorders. Eat healthy, get plenty of exercise, and plenty of regularly scheduled rest and I'd bet you'll notice a very large change in your own personality!
2007-02-14 17:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by irish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't often say this, but try www.landmarkeducation.com. I think you might find one of their weekend sessions helpful. You can usually go to a free three-hour course to see if it's useful.
2007-02-14 16:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no this is not a downward spiral......you just matured.
2007-02-14 16:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋