There is this girl in my classes that makes a angry face when ever I try to talk to her or just even look at her, even when I'm looking at something else. I called her a retard because we were just doing comebacks for fun during class and then when I said you are a reatard and then I did that thing with my hand where I hit my chest with my wrist then freaked out! And its been like that ever since October. What can I do to let her know that her grudge against me means NOTHING to me and that she needs to grow up, also I want her to feel stupid so when she does that thing with her face then she will be speachless. Thank you so much!
2007-02-14 16:25:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OR, you could just ask her why it bothered her so much. She may not tell you but at least you tried. The thing is, you have no idea what she has to deal with at home. Maybe she is verbally abused and you hit a nerve. Instead of retaliation, do the more mature thing and either find out why it bothered her or let it go.
2007-02-14 16:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I think her reaction towards you must 'mean something to you', if you're willing to take that time to post something about her, in here.
Maybe instead of making rude remarks towards her, maybe try being 'civil' to her?
Also, when you react by calling her names, or doing that little gesture with your hand/wrist, you're actually contributing to the 'lesser part of maturity'. It really doesn't make you any more immature than she is with her reactions towards you.
And I don't know why you would even want her to know 'anything' about how you feel towards her. She obviously has some issues, and they're not YOURS to resolve. Don't take on someone else's garbage, because they don't seem to like you 'for no good reason'. She obviously has something against you, and maybe in her world, she's just one of those people who has an anger problem, or maybe you remind her of someone? Ask her...maybe that's all you need to do. Communication is the key to finding answers.
2007-02-15 00:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that having a grudge is like carrying 100lbs of cement everywhere she goes,it wears on you physically as well as emotionally and can make you sick
2007-02-15 10:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to come as a shock to you but you both need to grow up.
You can't be serious. You're worse than she is! WHOOOAAAA.
2007-02-15 00:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her picture with your phone. If she does it again the next day, whip out a copy and ask her to autograph it. Do it every day. tell her you are wallpapering your dog house.
2007-02-15 00:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
"I don't wanna grow up - I'm a Toyz R Us kid..."
2007-02-15 00:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by BobbyJoe Horowitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋