because i'm very silent guy, and i'm not talking too much, basicaly i'm not agressive person so that purpose the competation spirit is not coming to me so please teach me how to overcome on this problem
2007-02-14 16:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by saggi 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Corporations
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2007-02-14 16:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Address the issues that are making you silent. Are you silenced by the fact that you are afraid of being belittled by a comment? Or do you feel that you are taken for granted?
Gradually express yourself in small increments to let people know how you feel, and you will eventually become more open. Let others know your opinion, even in you pretend you are kidding to see what kind of result you receive.
Have you ever watched the transition of Beauty and the Geek? It is amazing how much you grow and learn from others. Take interest and SHOW IT to others, which will result in being included. You DON'T have to be aggressive to get attention and noticed. Competition is a good thing, which I ascertain you have, but you are not forthcoming with your thoughts. Speak aloud and be noticed, but never be negative.
2007-02-14 16:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need is to develop confidence...not aggressiveness.
Keep people around you and begin forming opinions. Don't be afraid to express those opinions. With due time it'll be second nature. I used to be a pretty silent guy but lacking confidence. I was scared to speak up for fear of what people might think of me.
I still am a pretty silent guy but I speak up when I need to. When I speak it comes out articulate and well thought out. People respect that and I've been told I am the strong silent type. You don't need to run your mouth all the time to display confidence.
2007-02-14 16:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by bruce_eel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a problem, you're just a contemplative person. That's a personality trait to respect and admire. Aggression is a bad trait.
Maybe you want to practice assertiveness. Assertiveness is showing a basic respect for yourself by making yourself heard, tactfully speaking your mind, politely disagreeing when you don't agree, etc. Start practicing saying what you think. You don't have to be loud. People listen to quiet people who assert themselves.
YOU GO SUZIE!
2007-02-14 16:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been a silent guy nothing wrong with that, first love your self.
Not talking to much doesn't make you less either, what about competition? don't you like challenges? start accepting challenges on your life that forms your character you truly character will come out , and don't be afraid if this person who come out is not an aggressive person. or a quiet person.Enjoy your self you don't have to be precisely aggressive to accomplish things on life or to have a truly character.
enjoy your self if you dont like soemthing about your self change it, is all up to you.
2007-02-14 16:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nikita . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start by saying what you think. if you agree or disagree with something, just say it. get it out there. let people know how you are feeling and what you think. even if it is small talk, start talking, and talk to everyone. people love to talk and also love to talk about themselves, so get someone talking and then talk back at them. keep up on the news and start conversations with people. what do they think about the war in iraq, the president, the weather, the local news, international relations, etc. when you are angry, say something, do something. don't let people walk on you. if someone is being mean to you or hurting you, let them know and stand up for yourself. the confidence from that will make you feel like you can conquer the world.
2007-02-14 16:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of it is inevitably being aggressive, you're fairly asking to be assertive. there is an major distinction. you're a very style individual, yet you're at present very passive. you opt for to maintain that astonishing kindness, yet fee your self sufficient to adhere up for your self. it is fairly tricky before each and every thing, yet in case you try getting over this now, at 16, existence will be a lot more straightforward for you! an excellent blanket fact is in additional than a number of circumstances "i think _________ even as __________..." operating example "i think harm once you do not pay interest to me because I attempt very not uncomplicated to take heed to what you ought to say." solid success!
2016-11-28 03:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by strait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just fine the way you are. Besides, people prefer the taciturn people...someone who listens...and not always blabbing on and on about themselves and how great they are. Jesus was humble.
However, you should stand up for yourself and go after something if you feel that you deserve it. You owe it to yourself just as you owe other people respect.
2007-02-14 16:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by stagger_lee1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time it will surface after people and the pubulic
Sorry i can,t commemt it,s too tough for the spam or whatever.
2007-02-14 16:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play video games, enter karate, play soccer, see a psychiatrist
2007-02-14 16:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by diamond_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be aggressive, FINE!
Here you go.
You're one ugly mother farker! Angry? subtitles from Alien vs Predator.
_|_, angry?
FCUK YOU, why are you reading my answer script now? angry? lol
How much do u have in your bank account? May I help you to spend it all till empty? ANGRY?
Sorry for making you angry. Angry is easier than making a person smile :)
2007-02-14 16:55:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋