I asked a very successful father of four boys what he was teaching his sons about girls. He said he's teaching them to just go have sex with whomever. I then wondered what father's and/or mother's of daughters need to teach their girls if that's what boys are being taught by their fathers.
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2007-02-14 16:13:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You teach your daughters to watch out for those guys that are just out there to "go and get it".
2007-02-14 16:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by w8n4u_2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fathers have to teach their sons to be the alpha male and have sex, because studies show a male who is more comfartable girls succeeds better in life. Mothers have to teach their daughters to resist temptation and pressure, because mothers know what the father is teaching the son, and they also know that a intelligent girl can use this against the father and son by making the boy do things for sex. Such as buying gifts and going out on a dinner or something.
2007-02-14 16:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gary p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... an interesting aspect of parenthood is to see how exactly the child's views are running in.It essential that each parent needs to understand their child's opinions irrespective of its a girl or a boy.Its a common tendency where youth gets attracted to the opposite sex and its quite a natural tendency.A successful women as a mother should be more watchful on her daughter's views,in a sense she should be both a mentor and a critic.She should step into the shoes of her daughter and then advise or object things.I personally feel, ecah girl has a right to do what she likes and as long as she doesn't land herself into some sort of a trouble its ok to be with whomever she likes.After all having sex is just another way of getting pleasure and its one thing that u can enjoy only in your teenage.If I were a mother,I would advise my daughter to be free, free to do whatever she likes.I would just say that its just she would would need to be responsible for all her acts and I'm there always to accept her as she is.I would say I love her till my last breath and my happiness lies in seing her happy.It doesn't really matter for me with whom she dates.
2007-02-14 18:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by varaprasad143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...try asking a father who has a son and a daughter. I guarantee that you'll find out that they want there sons to do that but there daughters are more sacred to them. Not that they don't love there sons any less. It's just weird like that. Now that's not how every father does. But I have heard what your talking about from more than one person. So I guess it basically boils down to your beliefs in raising your children.
2007-02-14 16:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you call a "successful father" to someone who teaches to be promiscuous. I don't have anything against pre-marital sex, I had it myself, BUT, there are limits. Would you like to your daughter to be victim of one of the children of this "successful father"?
One good thing you might teach is that there are fathers who encourage their children to act like this, so, they must be extra careful. They not only won't care about their feelings at all, but, if given the case they got pregnant, this boys won't be at all responsible, quite the opposite.
2007-02-14 16:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by GN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a father, I have told my own daughters, and grand-daughters than boys, no matter how "nice" they are, cannot be trusted when it comes to sex. They will want "some" and will pressure girls into giving-in, or "putting-out". It is unfair, but a male who is sexually experienced is considered a stud, while a woman who is similarily experienced is often thought of as a tramp!
2007-02-14 16:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all that's just retarded. What Father in their right mind would suggest having sex whith whoever or to have any at all. Teens don't need that kind of encouragement, because we don't need to be grandparents at 45.
I have a daughter and I keep an eye on her like a hawk. I can't watch her 24/7/365, but I make sure I know who she runs with and make sure they know ME. Muck up with my daughter and there won't be hell to pay, ther'es gonna' be ME!
2007-02-14 16:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Pontius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hardly see how a one minute marriage and your question go hand in hand for one. But i do like the point you are making. I would take off the links as your point would easily get lost after one reads the links. Just my opinion. Unfortunately you are an extremist or your fight might actually go somewhere...anywhere but nowhere. That is the problem with alot of these causes...they become extreme.
2007-02-14 16:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've taught my son to build a life that doesn't requier dependence on anyone get your career home vehicles land whatever you want the girls will be there learn to be a complete person alone the kind of person that you can be proud to share with another person
2007-02-14 16:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nuts nuts nuts a father of three girls i have taught my girls to avoid jerks like that. however i know that each of my girls will encounter such jerks. this is why i taught them the three n,s that is kick them in the nuts nuts nuts. as a 4th degree black belt i have taught my girls other ways too persuade the male figure, however the nuts is my favorite. and for those daddys that teach their sons that way i only have one thing to say stay away from my girls
2007-02-14 16:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋