we've been broken up since June(I left him) but we've been spending lots of time together and now I'm questioning why I left him.I thought I was over him until 2 weeks ago and now I find myself still loving him maybe even more then I did before,we have a daughter together.I don't know what I should do...Go back and make things work or continue to try and move on without him? Any serious advice would be helpful.
2007-02-14 16:10:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
An ex is An ex for a reason. Sometimes you can get caught up in the right now and forget why you left in the first place. You look back and remember all of the good stuff, and the bad is just a little fuzzy. It stays that way for a while after you get beck together too. Then one day, that cloud comes and all the BS that caused you to leave the first time is back. Only now you are kicking yourself in the a** for "forgetting" that this is how it was before. Do NOT rush back, even if it feels so right. If it is right, the relationship will still be there after some time. Stronger if you really nurture it. If you go back before the problems are resolved, you are just asking to fail, no matter how much you love someone. My mom once told me that you can love someone dearly, and not like them at all. You have to like that person too. Wow- I made this one long enough- sorry about that.
2007-02-14 16:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by MELINDA C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats why its hard being friends after a breakup. when you date someone there are emotions involved, worrying what theyre doing, but as friends ppl are more carefree and just use all their time having fun. Thats why a lot of ppl notice more problems going from friends to dating and then when you break up its hard to get over someone so a lot of ppl still like to be friends but that makes it hard. If he gives you hints that he still likes you maybe you can make it work but I wouldnt recommend just being friends because there is too much history and emotions involved
2007-02-15 00:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he want to get back together with you? Why did you break it off with him in the first place? If it's over nothing serious... and you both want to get back together, go for it... your daughter would like it too. Good luck.
2007-02-15 00:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Stormee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sense u left him. i would take a piece of paper and write down pro and cons. but don't show him the paper. then i would go and take to him on where u stand on getting back together. take it from their. their must be something their between u 2. that make u go back and see each other. but what ever happen always make sure your daughter knows it not her fault if u can't get back together. but make sure she gets to see daddy. good luck.
2007-02-15 00:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still remember because a memory effect, this happen when someone to gather.
I guess you think again this, because you told us that you got a daughter, because breaking up is not the only problem solution.
2007-02-15 00:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember why you broke up with him in the first place. If it is something that can be forgotten and forgiven, give it another try, if not move on. Both, for your daughters sake.
2007-02-15 00:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you leave him?? tha's the question, if you think you left him for something that can be fixed, then try fixing it before tearing everything apart...
Or leave him if you think that it wont be fixed and move in with your life, but if you keep seeing only him, then you will still love him more and more.
2007-02-15 00:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, move on. Don't second guess yourself. You'll get over him eventually. It may take a year or so. Just give it time.
2007-02-15 00:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like maybe you should make it work you need ti talk and be open to him it sounds like you both love each other with a child i would give it another try
2007-02-15 00:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by jody n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you left him 4 a reason but if you feel this strongly about it then i would say that there is nothing wrong with getting back together with him..........
2007-02-15 00:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by the idiot down the road 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋