ok my bf called this girl spicy it bothered me i talked to him and nothing happened he still went on talking to her nd then he has the nevers to go and make a fake account and go around and ask ppl at my school if were a good couple bc we don't go to the same school we live about 30 minutes away well then he said he didn't mean to but it bothers me like crazy and i talked to him and why would i laugh at something like that HELP!
2007-02-14 15:59:24 · 14 answers · asked by MissBlondeKansasGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, my fiance calls girls "juicy". I don't care. I know who he sleeps with. ME!
2007-02-14 16:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are natural flirts, but it sounds like he's kind of immature at the same time (but most guys are at that age) It would bother me too if he called another girl spicy, but it's probably all in his personality to act the way it does (there IS a line between hitting on girls on the time, asking for their numbers and totally acting like a jerk, though. The detail you gave me was kind of confusing, so I'll let you decide on that one..) If it's his personality, I hate to say this, but you probably can't change him. You can tell him that you're not comfortable with him calling another girl spicy, but don't bug him too much about it or else you'll come off as clingy. The thing that a guy wants the most from his girl is trust...it's really valuable to him. If you get offended by a mini comment he makes and his fake accent around school, then try to be more assertive in your relationship with him. If you are confident in your relationship, then these types of things shouldn't bother you so much.
2007-02-14 16:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by i love love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you are seeing right now is uncertain of the relatuonship you have with him... Distance alone is bothering the dude. Heck, he doesn't seem like a cool guy, either, cause I would never call another girl spicy, especially if I am not single... And making fake accounts to go around and ask people if you guys are a great couple is plain nonsense, and he wants to know from others what they thin... It's not what they think that matters; it's what you think.. So this guy has an issue.
2007-02-14 16:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised at the strength a person can find with a broken heart, but alas it is also true that something that has been broken is never fully repaired the scars always remain and the wounds tug a painful cord sometimes. In short i guess you never can tell until Love works its spell.
2016-05-24 00:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, a guy i would want a relationship with would only be looking at me; not because i'm selfish or anything, but because it prevents any problems with cheating on each other. that way you can also have an honest relationship with your partner. if this happened to me, i wouldnt bother with him anymore. i dont think your whining at all, and he should be more considerate of your feelings, especially if your his girlfriend.
2007-02-14 16:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by skinny piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a whiner. People find other people attractive. It's what we do. You don't need help, you need counseling. If you really think that's a reason to get over him, then YOU are the one that should be dumped, not him.
2007-02-14 16:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nuke Everyone Equally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prolly wouldnt break up with him but i would be pissed! my b/f moved an hour away and right after that started talking with a girl so i threatened him and told him if he didnt stop we would be done! But the thing is you just need to compromize and be patient!!
2007-02-14 16:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by It's a Boy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if I were u a guy should be commited to a girl not flirt with others thats just wrong!
2007-02-14 16:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Blond&Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naah that's just silly. I check out "spicy" girls to. He loves me and I love him that's all that matters!
2007-02-14 16:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPICY could mean sexy. say thats a no no.if he does it again say how could u get water and spill it on him and say PLAYER.
2007-02-14 16:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by flippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋