My ex wife got knocked up by this black guy when she was in CA. She came back to my state and when she found out she was preg, he promised to come here and start a family and live as a couple. As soon as he got here, the first day he had 3 girls ph #'s and cheated on my ex. The next day he changed his tune, he started yelling and fighting and talking down to my ex (thank god he didnt hit her). When they knew each other in the other state, he would beat on her. She moved out in fear of him. Now he's living in the apt and smoking weed and drinking everyday. He gets unemployment and is lazy. She's in transitionaly housing and is afraid of him. Damn, I saw this coming a mile away. Why are black men so low? I've never met a decent caring black guy. ON the contrary, all the blacks I met are womanizers, cheaters, liars, they cuss and are rapper wannabes, they are violent and use drugs. My ex told me she's never going to be with another black guy again. She's white by the way and I'm Latino.
2007-02-14 15:50:51 · 19 answers · asked by Felix R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
OMG! Are you really that disingenuous to hide behind a shadow and ask such a question? I don't believe your Latino either. I believe you are a pot stirrer with a BROWN NOSE!
Good luck in life!
'-)
2007-02-14 15:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Well dude the niceset thing I can say to you is that you aint perfect either. 9 out of 10 latinos probably climbed over the fence to get here. Most blacks were born here & our ancestors were brought over there LEGALLY, even if they didnt choose slavery, they still got here legally. So I feel that puts me in the positiion to say you aint nothing.
Finally I'm a black guy that does work, own 3 vehicles & I do date a white woman but I never hit her or anything. So dont assume all black guys are bad. I'm sure you dont feel soo good now that i've told you you're not perfect either. Perhaps if us blacks hadnt been "raised by the enemy" soo long & if we all started life on equal footing (economically) then more folks would want to work & have nice things & not depend on welfare. But I dont see our society having us all start out the same so folks like you will just have to live with us busting you in the head & taking whatever it is you think you got!
2007-02-14 16:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
In every race you will find problems it is not nationality it is an abuser he is abusive there are many men out there who are abusive did you ever wonder why your wife left you or you left her? Maybe she should be in a Women's shelter where she can get counseling and maybe you need to step away from her relationships it is not healthy for you or if you want to have another marriage work it would be hard for a woman to wonder why her husband is so upset about another man. The best thing you can do is to suggest your ex get counseling and walk away. Also you may want to join an oraganization and find out that people are people race has nothing to do with abuse. Abuse is a horrible thing
2007-02-14 16:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Felix,
I hate rap music, I don't curse, I am not a womanizer. I am Christian. Before I respond to your idiot statement, let me say this to you. Italians, Jews, Latinos, Irish, Germans, Greeks, Filipinos, Chinese, and Japanese etc... all their poor fathers freely migrated to this country by their own free will. Black are the only race that was force to come to this country and yet be put into slavery. Even the Mexicans and Native Americans had slaves. So now the blood line has brought blacks into this century, which
brings about High blood pressure, Hypertension, Diabetic etc...
Some blacks are very unhappy because there are still no equalization in this world for them. For example, take a look at you! You know blacks are going to read your statement and wonder why you judge all blacks according what happen to your ex-girl?
(by the way share with us why she is your ex-girl friend? What have you done to her to make her your ex?)
Common sense will tell you that black have contribute to this world just as much as any other race, and yet, do really think that there will a black president? Lets find in the next election. It is so easy to always say bad things about blacks, because people can always get away with it! I dare you say something nasty about the White or even Italian people. Are you something when an Innocent black person is beaten or kill because his face is dark? or will you just smile and go to Mass.
Your ex-girl friend goes to Ca. and have sex with an unknown man. She doesn't know the man, because if she did she wouldn't open her legs so freely. Ask her why she was so quickly to have sex with him when she don't know him?
If she wanted to have a relationship with an African-American, why didn't she find a Christian?
The only issue I agree with you is any man that beats a woman, is not a man, but a punk!
I have a straight Love for M.L.K. and Rosa Parks, were they Latinos? No! but they spoke for all races, including Latinos. I have a fiancee who is not black, but God knows I love her so much! I can sit here write some nasty things I know about some Latinos, but I am not like you, because I love my (Latinos) friends.
I will pray for you and really pray for ex-girl friend. My advice is to you get educated and for her to get know the man before she open her legs again.
God Bless
P.S.
If it matter to you, I don't hate or dislike you. I will honestly say I don't understand you!
2007-02-14 16:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by tony 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You and the black man are not very smart..I think the only smart one is the woman, she got both of you guys stupid after her.
You and the black guy need to move on and get a life. You all sound like low lives to desire after the same used up woman.
You still want the woman who left you for someone else, had a baby and now is back crying to you over what she did to herself.
You all sound like a sad three-some, no use putting down the black guy because he took your woman. Just man up and move on. The odds of her going back black are very high with a black child.
2007-02-14 16:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by S C 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
do not insult all of them only because you've come for the time of a few unbranded wild hogs. there are a range of adult adult males outdoors of your race which will do an identical ingredient, possibly in a nicer way. Black adult adult males are only blunt and a touch too carefree. i recognize the way you experience to a pair volume. yet do no longer provide up on your race. you'd be the female Wesley Snipes that ditched her race with the aid of lack of having the excitement to get to draw close more desirable worrying human beings. they're obtainable, you in elementary words might want to opt to look in numerous different zip codes.
2016-11-03 12:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felix: The ol' saying: It takes 2 to tango ! I'm a "whitey" and I know that your ex had to give this "black guy" permission to "bang" her. Although the black guy should have exercised wisdom and shyed away from it all, your ex is now, reaping of what she sowed - isn't she ?
I know of lots of white guys, who do the same thing to white women or other origins of race. We live in the year 2007, and it is called "progress" !!!
2007-02-14 16:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are so contrary to how you describe black men, why is she your ex to begin with? It seems that if you were so decent and caring, you would not have to ask that question, because you would still be with her. Start with yourself, thats where you will find your answer.
2007-02-15 10:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what a white chick and some brainwashed puerto rican thinks about black men? If the white girl stops dating black men, that will be a good thing because its stopping them from bringing some more mixed up nuts into the world anyway.
2007-02-15 19:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think its very ignorant of you to judge an entire race on just one guy...i dated a Latino guy before that cheated on me all the time...so does that mean that all Latinos are jerks?
2007-02-14 15:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by pritty_princess_c 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why are you using this incident to judge evey black man, I am Black and Hispanic/latina and I could be ignorant and say that Latino men are no better but I am not b/c I will be stereotyping and ignorant just like you!! Educate yourself man it's a New Year!! Your ex wife should have also used her judgment when choosing to be sexually intimate with him. Seems like your just hurt she was with another man!!
2007-02-14 15:56:59 · answer #11 · answered by Breann 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋