Why is it so hard to forget about someone?

Question

There is this guy that I met him the first day at a new school, and he was so sweet. We became friends and well I found out he was moving away, and during the short time that I went to school with him I started developing feelings for him. Turns out his last day was 2 days before Valentines day. Well one day after school he told me he needed to talk to me. We were walking down the hall and he took me in to the stairwell and said since im leaving soon I wanna give you your Valentines day gift early, and he kissed me. Well when he moved away we talked a few times but then lost touch. Well I thought that I had totally forgotten about him. Then he contacts me, and ALL of them old feelings that I worked really hard to forget came back. Well turns out he is engaged and me and his girlfriend are friends now. It like sucks because like the feelings started coming back. But im trying so hard to push them away because I don't want to mess up my friendship with his girlfriend. WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Answer 1

I'm really sorry honey, I know that's really tough. But this guy has moved on and I think it's time that you do too. Love like this is always the hardest...but try to distract yourself. Hang out with the girls, treat yourself to a makeover...about his girlfriend, this is really hard. I'm sorry I don't know exactly waht to say, if it were me and i was in love with him I'd try to just distance myself from her and him at the same time to avoid drama, but that's just me. But try not to think about him anymore and move on...it's all you can do now. You'll find somebody someday, don't worry! :)