my husband bought me box of choclates and a card for v day.?

Question

instead this made me mad. i am trying to loose 20 lbs and he gives me choclate. And when ever i wear a tight shirt he says you would look hot 20 lbs skinner. Am i being crabby or what. Also girls i know got nice jewerly and i got a cheap 10 dollar box of choclate whose brand i ever heard of.

Answer 1

O.k. here's my answer and you may not like it.

There are many people out there like myself who received Nothing! Nothing!

That is a Box of Chocolate and a card less then what you received. As a Rule Men don't usually know what to buy anyway.

I will ask you the same things {I asked my Best Friends) since they are all girls) lol!~

What did you get him and since when did Valentine's Day become an occasion for Women?

Go to your Husband and thank him for thinking of you and then Thank God that you have a husband to go to and Thank and that you are not by yourself.

Thank God that this is not your last Valentine's Day with your Husband as in the next year thousands of Women's Husband's will die due to murder, car accidents, etc. I'm sure you follow what I'm saying. If you didn't get him anything then I would suggest you run out and get him something to SHOW you appreciate and value him on this very special day.

GL!

'-)

Answer 2

I think that it sounds wonderful. He's your boyfriend because he likes *you*, not the things you can give him. He'll like whatever you give him because it came from your heart. Besides, don't worry about how much he'll spend on your gift. It could end up that he won't spend a lot on your present because he's afraid that you'll worry about having to spend just as much on him. Next time you can set a limit to how much each of you can spend on gifts for whatever holiday it is. (For instance, next year you only spend $5-10 on V-day presents.) EDIT: By the way... don't really pay attention to people saying "you are too young". If you were in a relationship where you were getting physical (sex or heavy petting) with your boyfriend, then yes you would be too young, but I'm assuming that your boyfriend is more of a boy who is your best friend at this point in time.

Answer 3

Sorry if you are being made to feel insensitive when we don't have all the details. You may be comparing what he's done in the past (more) or that you guys aren't counting pennies & you feel like you do alot around the house & if you have kids, etc, & a Holiday that is used to express love to the one you love, you may expect a little more thought. How was the card? Did it seem personal & loving or did it feel like he was doing something (the least he could do) out of feeling obligated & it didn't feel special? Only you know the previous years... what you do for him... what he can do for you... if you know that he knows what you like but he doesn't try to make you too happy, etc. There's alot of missing details that we don't know so I don't want to judge you & say your feelings are unvalidated. You are probably not alone but I know that doesn't make it feel better if you feel hurt...someone wasn't being as thoughtful as they could, didn't seem like much emotion behind it, etc. I'm not saying they have to buy something expensive, most importantly it's the emotion & love they show when they give & you know & can tell if it was there. And it may not be because you are crabby. All wives know that guys can be that way too, but some women give their whole hearts in spite of it. I like that song by Martina McBride "This one's for the girls" ("Who love without holding back"). It's not how much you're loved that will matter in the end but how much you loved. (as in there are some very worthy people to be loved who are not appreciated or loved but God knows them & he's the judge.) Hugs to you!

Answer 4

What did you give him and what did the card say I got flowers at work today I did not get a card that is okay I know my husband loves me. There were women at work that got nothing from their man. How hard would it be for them to go out get flowers or chocolate and a card and say I care about you. He should not verbally abuse you by saying you need to lose weight you should give the candy away he does not need to know it. Keep working on yourself be proud of who you are buy yourself some flowers and take a good look at the person you married. You need to be able to talk to him and tell him what you would like what kind of thing would surprise you what surprises him. Marriage is a give and take and you need to be able to verbalize. Happy Valentine's Day I hope next year you have the kind of day you dream of.

Answer 5

Freeze the chocolates and eat only one a day. If the chocolate is hard and frozen you most likely wont be able to bite into it. It will make you take your time with it. Plus if you go to the gym you can work those chocolates off. Cut him some slack men don't know what to get women because we are picky. I got jewelry and made him exchange it. I am sure he was irritated though because a couple weeks ago he asked me if I wanted to be surprised and I said yes.

Answer 6

Maybe you are just too crabby. He got chocolates because it is traditional, and it slipped his mind that you are on a diet. You don't have to eat them all at once, you know -- chocolates never spoil.

Answer 7

you know it is suppose to be the thought that counts, not the prise of the gift. So you trying to keep up with the Jones. You should of been happy that he got you anything.

Answer 8

He is just trying to be sweet, dun get mad. you shld feel happy, some man I know, did'nt get anything for their other half man... Count yourself lucky, Girl

Answer 9

lol hun, never fear this isnt ur last valentines =] and at least hes honest i mean i feel ya guys are just IDIOTSS andd justt careless some times but its okayy he luvs you and u noe it!


best of luck. my wishes to ya! happy valentines day!

Answer 10

So, are you upset he bought you chocolates or that they were cheap chocolates? I'm confused...