I'm 5'4 and 95 pounds and im going to be 14 in a few days. I think I have huge thighs yet everyone calls me a stick. I dont get it. Does anyone else feel the same way?
2007-02-14 15:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by ale 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
you have to put on weight
2007-02-14 15:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is fixated on a certain body image. 5'4" at 95lbs is thin, your friends (and I suspect everyone else you meet) would probably confirm that you're thin.
The reason you think you have huge thighs is because you have a self-confidence issue. You might have a ton of self-confidence, but still have some really focused doubts about yourself.
Doubts can be good, but only when grounded in reality. Although I haven't seen you, judging by your height and weight, I do not think it is realistic for you to be worrying about your weight/thighs.
The next time you start thinking poorly about yourself, take a step back and remind yourself how much everyone else thinks of you. Tell yourself that you won't let these irrational and unrealistic doubts attack your self-confidence.
If it gets worse, talk to a teacher you trust.
2007-02-14 23:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but you are heading for the danger zone. 95 pounds is skinny enough for a girl who's 5'4" and thinking you're fat at that weight is very bad.
I'll give you an example: My girlfriend Kate is 5'4" and 115 pounds and I think she's a little thin (she's still hot, though. Oooooh, baby!) And she outweighs you by 20 pounds.
Please get some help before it gets worse...I beg you.
2007-02-14 23:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body image is probably bad. 95 pounds is very skinny so dont worry your not fat. See yourself in a different way.
2007-02-14 23:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by theflame_inside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
95 lbs is skinny for your height. I'm 5'3'' and i'm 104 lbs. and that's relatively normal.
You're definately not fat. It's just your body image right now. You're young and self-concious, still going through puberty. I feel that way sometimes too. But it's definately not uncommon to feel that way when you're young, and anyone who says they don't feel that way is lying. You're fine..don't worry about it. No matter what you are, just be happy that you're you.
2007-02-14 23:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by BeautifulBunnyO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has doubts about they're body. And by your height and weight, you are SKINNY! Its normal to have doubts but try and get over them because you're really NOT fat.
2007-02-14 23:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by baileyboo45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 20 i weigh 98 ponds i am 4'5
2007-02-14 23:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋