Would you truly stay with someone you love at their very worst?
2007-02-14 14:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by solostwithoutyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2007-02-14 14:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, unconditional love truly exists. Look at every mother and child...it's unconditional. I think the same goes for a spouse that is your soul mate and your best friend. Through thick or thin, hell or high water, you are there for each other. You may not always like that person for some of the things they do, but you will always love them and endure whatever it takes to keep that bond. I guess the reason I say this, is because I have this. I have five children, one who has put us through hell, but without hesitation, I would be there for her in a heartbeat. I've also been cheated on as a wife, survived his physcial abuse and went through several years of counseling with him. I didn't think it was possible, but now that I have it and live it.....I know it exists. You just have to want it and believe in it and take the steps necessary to get to that point in life.
2007-02-14 14:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unconditional love exists only between a parent and child. You can not unconditionally love a spouse/partner because the rules of your relationship are conditions. If your relationship has no rules, you probably don't care about the other person, in which case, you don't love them. If she gets fat or he gets bald, will you still love them? Sure. If they start torturing small animals and sleeping with everything under the sun? Probably you won't love them anymore (if you do, you probably need to evaluate yourself).
2007-02-14 14:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by meh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does exist. I wish I could shake my unconditional love
2007-02-14 21:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
which you like somebody unconditionally does not propose which you will stay with them in any respect cases, whatever. Unconditional love, understanding, loyalty, braveness of convictions and willingness to enhance all make a individual greater in a position to make a contribution to a wholesome relationship. endurance, endurance and persuasion help human beings to enhance. you are able to exchange a individual's behaviour via threatening them with a loss of your love, yet what outcomes is a timid, uninspired individual (or the top of the relationship). in case you p.c. somebody to be vibrantly sturdy, independently stunning, you may love them unconditionally. specific, some human beings won't stay as much as their skill, yet that's a vulnerability that we would desire to settle for, and allow each and each individual p.c. for themselves how sturdy they are going to be. If we don't enable them to try this, they have not got a huge gamble of shining brightly. My hubby has constantly been very affected person, yet no longer very persuasive. It grew to become into via him that I found out to love unconditionally. many cases i truthfully hated him, yet via the years (we've been married 12 years) i've got found out to allow flow of my judgements and spot that there is not any longer a particular way that each thing must be completed. If the paint interest isn't proper, the homestead will nonetheless arise. in case you have a dedication (ie. marriage) and you honor that dedication definitely, then ultimately issues would be worked out, and an unconditional love will additionally enhance. it is perplexing adequate to persist in marriage once you're with a sturdy individual. you're soliciting for a international of discomfort in case you flow right into a sexual relationship or marriage with a individual who's lacking in ethical fibre. a individual would desire to constantly act with ethical integrity. human beings like which would be trusted, and consequently it makes a sturdy relationship. the two human beings would desire to be like that. honest.
2016-10-02 04:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I sure would and I do believe in unconditional love except for extreme abuse or habitual adultery or someone abandoning you. yes i love my husband at his worst just like he does me BUT we do not abuse each other or cheat on each other either and we never would! We love our kids and parent unconditionally too just like we do family. As Christians we are to love others they way that God loves them. God commands us to. God loves us unconditionally does he not? Oh to love and see people the way that God does. Makes me think.
2007-02-14 14:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No to your answer put as you have. It would be a conditional love if their worse was self made, like drugs or alcohol or abusive behavior. But if their worse was beyond their control like a terminal disease or accident then I would stand beside him through it all to the end.
2007-02-14 14:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have kids? I have loved mine even when they have done and said horrible things. I would continue to love them no matter what, most parents would die without a second thought, if it were to save their child.
2007-02-14 14:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by thrill88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only until the point where you have to save yourSELF---as in abuse or drug usage.
I think it's very rare for a spouse to feel it, but I think it is very common for parents to love their children unconditionally.
2007-02-14 14:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only with my babies.........who are my puppies. Because they know only unconditional love. But humans are supposed to know better.
2007-02-14 14:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you truely love someone,there is no worst.i've been married for 13 years and i can tell you this theres nothing he can do to turn me off.
2007-02-14 15:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by deyanira m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋