she came home from work and started yelling at me cause the dog had apprently destroyed the kicthen. her bf got home before her and called her and said ur kid didn't clean the mess up when she got home. it was so stupid its not even my dog its the boyfriends dog, can't he clean up his own dogs mess. i am so pissed at my mom rite now. she said it was my fault her bf got mad and that i was the one supposed to be cleaning it when my brother could have done it too. she said it was my fault the dog destroyed te kicthen wat the hell i was at skool all day how was it my fuking fault.shes taking her stupid frustrations from work out on me and its getting me really pissed off. can't she take it out on her bf or someone else just not me. i am just so tired of my mom rite now shes ruining my life. i wanna run away should i?
2007-02-14 14:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i could run away to my dads house, im sure it would probaly be alot there anyways.
2007-02-14 15:47:36 · update #1
alot better there*
2007-02-14 15:48:07 · update #2
Hey EM! u told me about that! i remember! yay me! lol ttyl!
2007-02-15 10:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Booger♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 year old teens are so much into drama, that's why people are on your case. Your statement that your life is ruined may feel real to you but it isn't real. Kids who have a parent or parents in the military (called military brats) move a heck of a lot more than you do and they survive. It's difficult moving all the time. That I understand. It just sounds dreadfully selfish. You didn't holler when you made the previous moves about your life being ruined it was only when you got a friend/s that it was life threatening. In reality, it's not the idea of making friends that is the problem, it's the moving all the time that is the problem. So you should have been upset by them all, not just this one. The best you've got is that your mom keeps moving you "for some reason." Is she on the run from the law, creditors, an ex-husband, is she unstable, on drugs, drinking? I mean there must be a reason why someone moves around that much. Have you ever sat down with her in a calm setting and just chatted with her? Have you said something like, "You know, I feel really bad for you. If I feel like my life is turned upside down every time we move then you must feel that way too. How do you cope? It's very very difficult for me." Without pointing fingers and blame, ask her what the reason is and see what she says. Maybe she doesn't have a clue what the moves are doing to you. There's very little we can do except offer suggestions like this one. I can tell you honestly that your life is not in ruins. Doesn't mean you have to like it but life will go on and hopefully it will get better. But I highly recommend that you chat with her and not make it about just you but the both of you. Try to make a connection with your mom and try to find out why this happens. Get a better reading on the situation. Best of luck!
2016-03-29 06:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I understand your frustration, but the worst thing you could do would be to run away. All that would happen, is when she found you, you would just be in more trouble. What you need to do is just realize that she probably isn't the best mom, but she's not trying to kill you, or ruin your life. You have two options, just take it in stride, clean up the kitchen, then get on with your day, or talk to her about it. You can take her aside when she is calm, and tell her what you are feeling, and what's making you mad. She will listen to you. As long as she doesn't get violent, you just need to do what she says, it will be better for you. But if she, or any of her boyfriends gets violent, call the Police right away, no matter what you mom tries to tell you. Good luck.
Remember, you will be out of the house when you turn 18.
Keifer
2007-02-15 01:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by keiferalbin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it continues, then do something. As for now just tell her exactly what u said. If u can stay with ur dad stay with him for a while. If u gotta scream......scream! Dont hold anger in because then it'll only be worse later on. Tell ur mom and her bf how u feel and then if they dismiss u or yell.....yell back....make sure u let them know that u were right in this situation and she was wrong. JUST because she's ur mom doesnt make everything she does right.
2007-02-14 16:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by John 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Emawee, she is a really mediocre mom and I can understand your frustration, but if you ran away what would you do? I mean you need money, food, clothing and shelter. But year she is taking her frustrations out on you. Just wait till you both calm down and talk to her. My mom is gone so I appreciate her more now.
2007-02-14 15:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lori 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ay, jusko.
The dog did it, but the dude blamed you. What a total S.O.B.
And, yet, your mom takes everything out on you.
For your runaway suggestion: is your dad in San An and vicinity?
2007-02-15 09:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha .. get used to it! she has to direct her stress osmewhere and obviously you are a prime target.. i could see why too!!!!! tell her you were at school all day.. unless you heard the dog "destroying" the kitchen and ignored it.. tere are more important things to worry about in life than to worry about how the dog destroyedthe kitchen and your mom got after you for it...
2007-02-14 17:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to you dad and tell him you want to come live with him and if he says yes have him talk to your mom so they can arrange for you to move.
2007-02-15 02:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Cornell is Hot! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would scream at her boyfriend
2007-02-15 10:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋