At one point, I had two best friends, one best friend started dating the other. For two and 1/2 years I was but on the back burner and snubbed. Now they broke up. Her boyfriend (who moved away) recently sent me an e-mail explaining why he hadn't really spoken to me in years and why he had broken up with his girlfriend. In some respects, the e-mail tells me more about why he dumped her than he told my friend. Some of actions are appauling to me, but I can tell he's trying to be honest and make things right. However, he seems to be going about it in the wrong way. I still don't know where I stand with him, whether I should answer the e-mail with a calm understanding voice or with an honnest cry of how I really feel. On one hand I feel he deserves every bit of animosity he gets from me, and on another, I feel like he should get a second chance. I would like some other peoples oppinion on what they think. So, if you wouldn't mind...voice your oppinion?
2007-02-14 14:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by Matia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not about what he deserves. It's ALL about what YOU deserve.
Be honest to him, then give him a second chance if you really want to. But most important here, be honest with yourself.
2007-02-14 14:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to be anyone's second choice, and move on from there.
2007-02-14 22:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋