i come from a haitian family and haitian parents are very strict about dating. well anyways, my mom found out i had a boyfrend and she wasnt very pleased about it and i think that she hates him. what do i do to make her see that my boyfrend's not a bad person?
2007-02-14 14:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Does this have to do with this other question about you thinking that he's just keeping you around to play with?
If it does, I totally agree with your mom
2007-02-14 15:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, from a haitian girl to a haitian girl, when have you ever heard haitians letting there daughters date. Never! The moment they even suspect its like "Ke Sa"?!?!?! I mean u are brave for even letting your mother find out. Just show her not the stereotypical girl thats acts all crazy and loose when they get a boyfriend. When she sees how responsible you are she'll come around. It might take a minute because you know haitian are crazy but it'll happen.
~HaitianSunshine~
2007-02-15 08:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Infopleaze 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok of course he needs to enhance up some he made the choice to stay with you so a strategies and he grew to become into in part in charge on your youngster. He needs to think of roughly what he has and make a call and so do you do no longer harm you self over somebody that can't even settle on your loved ones. whether my spouse's mom grew to become into the meanest individual interior the international i'd nonetheless flow to their homestead via fact my spouse does love them and that they've been there long in the previous i grew to become into. related to the dishonest difficulty do no longer leap the gun basically yet make specific of whats happening perchance he basically needs to make your mind up what he needs to do together with his existence. Sounds to me such as you have a lot of stuff to be concerned approximately and from what you have informed me you the two sound quite youthful so perchance he's basically afraid of the region. in case you nonetheless think of he's dishonest attempt to get some perplexing info and make sure you get examined. i'm sorry to pay attention related to the father of you infant is appearing like that yet now and back difficulty are basically no longer meant to be. save your head up and in no way stop struggling with for what you like and have self belief. i comprehend quite some single women people who do basically high-quality if he won't guy up then somebody will ultimately basically talk with him don't get indignant or enhance your voice basically ask how he feels approximately whats happening and perchance which will shine some mild on the region.
2016-10-02 04:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take it slow with him. Do not decieve your family, but maybe not mention him as much, let them know that you 2 are casually dating, not having sex, whatever. Maybe with time you can ease them into the idea of their little girl dating. My mom and dad wouldn't let me date til I was 18...they let me have a bf as long as I brought him to the house, Our dates consisted of watching TV with my parents for abut 6 months...BLAH! We couldn't even hold hands in front of them.....If he likes you, he will be willling to deal with their strictness though.
My parents were the same way! Just hang in there!
2007-02-15 02:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom doesn't hate him, she is just worried about her daughter getting older. The best thing you could do is to get her permission (that's necessary), and invite him over for dinner. Don't kiss him, or even hold hands, but just let her see that he is a nice guy. Good luck.
Keifer
2007-02-15 01:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by keiferalbin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to invite him over one night and promise that you two won't hold hands or hug or even kiss. Or see if she'd be up to going over to his house and talking to his parents.
2007-02-15 07:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all happy b-day =} !!! let her get 2 no him, have him over 4 dinner, show her he isnt a bad guy, and if she still does not approve, well shes yur mom and u gotta do wat she says, but the best of luck to ya, and happy b-day
2007-02-14 22:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by koi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introudce them to each other. Then if that works go from there.
2007-02-14 14:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by J K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT DOESNT MATTER WUT UR PARENTS THINK...ITS U WHO R DATIN DA GUY...JUSS DONT HAVE DEM AROUND IN DA SAME PLACE...
2007-02-14 15:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by LiL_DiiM3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋