Ok he's very young he's not turning 14 till July 1 and Im about to turn 14 so I'm older than him but he's my CRUSH!! my love my hearts throb. Don't worry were not active yet (too young) but I cant live without him. Why did he forget me on Valentine's day? Tonite my mom say me really sad and I told her that he forgot me she gave me one of her special looks and said a riddle; she asked me if I know the difference between men and boys. I said that men are adults and boys arent RIGHT??? she said no the difference is that men are taller than boys. Then she said dont worry and the usual question she asks me when Jamie comes up is are we acting appropriate and she expects me to or we will not be able to see each other any more. I answerd her with my usual answer YES MOMMY DONT WORRY LITTLE BECKY ALWAYS ACTS APPROPRIATE. Why didnt he remember me? Oh I got all my friends at school really nice cards and they gave me some really cute cards too but why didnt HE??
2007-02-14 14:26:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Oh sweetheart, I can see your heart is breaking. So boys are funny creatures. Until they are much more grown up - they don't understand that what matters to girls (cards, flowers, etc.) doesn't matter to boys. I don't know why he didn't get you a card or present. Maybe he forgot. Maybe he didn't have a way to get to the store. Or maybe he didn't get any money. Or maybe he doesn't have a good Dad figure in his life to demonstrate how guys treat girls. But you know what? (Here's the Mom lecture...) None of that matters. You have to let it go. Don't be hurt (try hard). Don't be mad. Don't hold it against him. Today is today and if you let tomorrow get messed up with frustrations and feelings from today then you will make your relationship with your boyfriend less, harder, and so on. One more thing. Giving a gift (you getting him a card) is a gift... giving... something you did - without regard or expectation of what you would get back, right? I am sure that you did not only buy him a card hoping he would do the same. You gave it because you wanted to. So let him off the hook. Enjoy the gift (card) you gave him. And have a great NEW day tomorrow. Happy Valentines Day.
2007-02-14 14:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your'e bummed that you two missed the opportunity to have some special time together for Valentine's day and that you would like both of you to do something special for each other this coming weekend.
(This way he won't feel like you have your hand out, selfishly expecting him to throw down cash for you to celebrate a cheesy commercialized holiday.)
You cannot hint around with guys. They have to be told very directly what you expect and the sooner we ladies learn this the better off we will be! ;-) lol (It's true, though!!!!)
2007-02-15 07:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Boys for you. When he gets a little older 17/ 16 Then boys/guys start getting interested in girls. Before that they have no idea and are trying to empress there friends more.
Don't worry he probably likes you, and loves the card . but being male - he is probably worried he will embarrass him self.
2007-02-14 14:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aussie_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and HOW many guys here on this board said that they don't like giving and receiving cards? Did you listen to them? Besides, at his age, he probably doesn't think much about girls yet. And if he does, it'll be in an experimental/selfish context. Just wait. First, he has to realize that you have something he wants. Then your job will be to keep it from him till he gives you what YOU want. And by the time you have that worked out, you'll both be in your mid 20's.
2007-02-14 14:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stiff lots of things , shopping today I sniffed the strawberries to see if they were ripe , I sniff most fruit before I buy . I always sniff the wine before I pour it , and Im the same with milk ;o) Di xx
2016-05-24 00:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, (a guy), Guys really REALLLY hate getting all emotional on valentines day. first of because it makes you look like a girl, and no girl will want to date another girl (catch my drift) and second of all, through my observations on valentines day, i have realized the average guy is too stupid to to realize that a girl likes him. i mean COME ON you fricken sneak around and give a 2 second glance and then walk away like nothing happend.
2007-02-14 14:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gary p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
o.k. he's a guy, guys just sometime forget valentine's day, birthdays, anniversarys and such as that, it is a guy thing...and then we do silly things like bring home flowers for no reason at all...he's only 13, he'll grow up someday (not as soon as you'd like but way sooner than his parents will like), and become a bit more thoughtfull, give him a few years...(yes, years i know it sounds like forever, but it is only 3 or so years)...
2007-02-14 14:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by captsnuf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you both are very young yet, and maybe he did look at the cards, but could not find the one he wanted to buy, or maybe he did not have the money for the one he wanted to buy. Maybe just could not afford the cards.
2007-02-14 14:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be that he is not into valentine day. Take it from me, i been with my feiance and i have been together for years and he always forget valentine day. If it really bother you ask him why he did not get you anything
2007-02-16 09:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally, some people are just very anti-Valentine.
2007-02-14 14:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bog-man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋