he has been my buddy for a while, but during the last 2 years, he was gone very perverted. He only does what he does to me, not any other girl.
2007-02-14 14:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by esdc5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you can't be honest with him and explain that you feel uncomfortable about his behavior, then maybe he is not really your "buddy".
2007-02-14 14:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....here's the deal....
1) maybe he likes you....(i don't exactly know where he's touching you so maybe this doesn't help) some ppl are very touchy-feely.....maybe he's just 'comfortable' around you.....again, i don't know the situation...
2) are you the same way back to him? maybe ur sending 'mixed messages' to him.....he may think you enjoy it.......
3) how old are you 2? if you guys are 'preteens' then it's VERY WRONG! if you guys are 'teens'...well, it's still wrong....but most guys get perverted around that age anyway....he just so happens to be MORE perverted. 'Adults'.....well i dunno....I'm not considered an 'adult' yet
4) You need to tell him before it gets worse. Just tell him straight up "Dude! please stop touching me like that!" Don't try to drop hints...some guys just can't focus hard enough to piece the hints together. (not all guys are stupid, but come on, some are)
I hope my advice helped you.....remember, if he's a TRUE friend, he would not PURPOSELY make you feel uncomfortable....
2007-02-14 14:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by omglikenoway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a friend if he's doing that to you and you don't want him to. The problem is (I'm guessing) that you've let it go on because it was gradual and you didn't want to be mean. Right? If that's the case then just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and you would like him to stop. You don't have to be mean about it unless he gets ugly or doesn't stop. If that's the case then you'll know that he really wasn't your friend to begin with. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-14 14:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him to stop and he doesn't listen then perhaps you've outgrown him. He doesn't sound like much of a friend. Tell him to cut the crap or he'll lose you.
2007-02-14 14:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop. If he doesn't, you can bring charges up against him. No one has the right to touch you without your permission.
2007-02-14 14:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop. if he doesn't give him a good kick between the legs, he'll get the hint then.
2007-02-14 14:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and not to do it. If he continues dont hang out with him. Is he really your friend?
2007-02-14 14:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously hes attracted to you and to make it stop ull prolly end up beign a ***** to him so get someone biger than him to sit next to you or something
2007-02-14 14:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMEONE HAS TO GET THE MESSAGE TO HIM . IF YOU CONSIDER HIM VIOLENT THEN HAVE SOMEONE PRESENT WHEN HE IS INFORMED OF YOUR FEELINGS. YOU DECIDE ON THIS OR HAVE LEGAL AUTHORITIES INTERVENE AND PAY HIM A VISIT AND EXPLAIN THAT HIS ACTIONS REGARDING YOU WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. THAT SHOULD DO IT ., IF NOT THEN , HE CAN GET HAULED OFF AND BOOKED.
2007-02-14 14:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to stop i had guys do this to me and i asked the other girls why he didnt do it to them and they told me they told him they were not interested.
2007-02-14 14:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Heather F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋