She is always very rude and blunt about things and says things no one else says about me. Is it more likely that shes a ***** or just brutaly honest?
2007-02-14 13:44:03 · 21 answers · asked by ♫That'll be the Day♫ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She can be honest or just a b*tch. It really depends if she is like that to everyone and not just only you she is honest. But if she says it to you only she might be a b*tch. Not everyone is tat honest though.
2007-02-14 13:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is 'really' your friend, there is no reason for the rude and blunt part. Honesty is great and needs to be shared with your friend, but tactfulness is a wonderful quality.
Hopefully, she will obtain this as she matures. In the mean time,
sounds like she is practicing on you. Now, it is your turn to become assertive and gently tell her how her rudeness and bluntness are offensive to you, she can drop that part and keep the honesty and the friendship will last.
good luck
2007-02-14 13:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends...true friends say what is on their mind. If its vile honesty and said in ways to hurt you, she is not a real friend. Some people are very blunt. My sister is super blunt sometimes hurtful...doesn't mean that she is a ***** necessarily. I called my sister that but she cares for me deep down and has a good heart. Done so much for me and always been there for me. Good luck! And remember, don't burn any bridges by jumping to conclusions!
2007-02-14 13:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would have to be there to know for sure, but unfortunately she sounds like a *****. Your friends will tell you like it is but they will do it in the most careing way possible. If she's just blunt and rude then she really doesn't sound like much of a friend. Sorry.
2007-02-14 13:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, if he's employing you to come again at somebody else, being trustworthy with him in a stunning way won't harm him. If he definitely needs to flow with you, you will possibility hurting his emotions. ascertain the actual reason you do no longer p.c. to flow with him. Then be trustworthy and allow him comprehend which you have desperate it would be greater valuable in case you probably did no longer flow with him. in accordance together with his reaction, you will comprehend what he thinks. you may additionally propose assembly him there extremely of him choosing you up at homestead. That way, you steer away from the journey share difficulty, yet permit him down trouble-free. If he's conscious you're on the dance, he could nonetheless ask you to bop. No harm in that.
2016-10-02 03:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume ***** every time and you'll be right at least 1/2 of the time
2007-02-14 13:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like beeotch material to me....I got my first pair of glasses recently and wore them to work for the first time. One girl said (without being asked) that they were "matriarchal". What a blow when I was hoping they were kind of hot, considering I have to wear them...AND I had spent all that time picking out the ones I thought looked best on me. I gave her a death look and she said, "What? At least you know you'll always get the truth from me." I told her that falls under the category of "If you don't have anything nice to say, just don't say anything..." Sound like what you're referring to?
2007-02-14 13:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a *****... but I might be wrong. What kind of things does she say? It's not nice though.
2007-02-14 13:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Etania 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest people still have tact and empathy. Rude people do NOT. Total *****. Who needs the mind games?
2007-02-14 13:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in brutal honesty. No one is really that honest! She's being a *****.
2007-02-14 13:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by killer queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋