2007-02-14 13:43:47 · 23 answers · asked by BlondGrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's time for a divorce when you can not have any conversations with your spouse that don't end up in arguments. When communication breaks down and trust issues are present those are some very big signs of problems in the marriage. Usually you will find that you end up arguing alot over stupid little things but in reality the problems are bigger and underlying. You need to have things in common and enjoy each other's company. If you don't feel like you love him and you are just stuck then it's time to consider moving on...
Maybe you could consider marriage counseling. Some therapists can be helpful but some aren't so great so you might have to try more than one before you find the right fit...
Good luck...
2007-02-14 14:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you when it's time to give up on your vows. I'm at that very point myself after 16 years. It's time when your heart says it's time, and not before. Only you have to live with your decisions so you have to be prepared to stand behind them. For me, it was time when I gave up hope that things could ever be good again. Stop looking for the easy way out by asking someone else to tell you what to do. It's your life...and it's shorter than you think so make a choice and fight with all you're worth to get to your decision, whichever way it might be.
2007-02-14 13:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by pcdoc59 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your on here asking total strangers this question. Sorry if you think thats smart *** but its the truth. Just walk away and quit emptying your problems online. Thats a big freaking sign right there. Talking to us and not talking to him.
2007-02-14 14:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are to many signs to list but some would be, the obvious of course, cheating, abuse of any kind or an addiction that the addict isn't willing to work on. Also when one or both do everything they can to not be around or at home with the other and can't wait to go to work or any place else, when your no longer happy to be with them and when you find every fault in them.
2007-02-14 13:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i knew it was time when his girlfriend of 7 years called me one night when he was suppose to be at an AA meeting.this was not a total surprise i did have some clues just too blind to realize it. if you can't spend time together or he doesn't seem to want you around, or if he just disappears with out any good reason as to where he has been. then it may be time. by the way if he says he is going to AA meetings they don't last until 200am.
2007-02-14 14:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by angela i 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When there are no more tears. That doesn't mean it's easy to leave. But when you feel indifferent about the other person, it's time. Even if you have kids, if you have emotionally moved on, it will be very difficult to save. At least this was my experience. I wish you the very best.
2007-02-14 14:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't seem to spend time with you; care for you when you need him; and when you are sick. He spend most of his time outside. When he stop looking at you and saying that he loves you and he needs you the most in his life. Worst is when he stop coming back home and totally ignore your and your existance..or even the minute he raises his hands on you.. youbetter walk out of him.
2007-02-14 13:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cheated on you . Have no respect , Don't do what they say,sneak around,hid things from you,Have little or no interest in you.Spend more time away than home.The list can go on & on .If your asking than you already know. Sorry Best of luck
2007-02-14 13:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, when I felt in your head and heart that I'd done e/thing to save my marriage, and it was evident my partner could care less. This was after 20 years, with no more left in me to give.
2007-02-14 14:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old feelings weren't there anymore and never would be again. No matter how much therapy we got, I would never feel the same towards him. I hated looking at him and listening to him. He wanted "space." I wanted "out."
2007-02-14 14:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋