I think my partner wants to have sex more but i don't feel up to it. Am i being too hard on him?
2007-02-14 13:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Don't feel bad, do whatever you feel comfortable with, you are the one that is carrying the baby. I am not suggesting you neglect his needs, just look out for yours.
2007-02-14 14:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel u cant do it any more than once a week then stick 2 doing it once a week because at any stage but more aless the end of ur pregnancy ur body is more tired and ur partner should respect ur decision on whenu want 2 have sex but he should have some thought on how it would feel 2 have sex when ur not up 2 it or feelin ill etc all pregnancys are different some women love 2 have sex all the time during pregnancy and others dont and ur partner should know that and feel lucky that atleast ur up 2 havin sex atleast cause some dont want sex at all during there pregnancy
2007-02-14 13:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if ur not up to it u shouldent feel bad at all i know how hard the last few weeks of pregnancy can be and u should not do anything that that u dont want to do and if u parter loves ur he would deffinitly understand its not like ur going months with out giving him any so dont feel bad but word of advise having alot of sex during the last couple of weeks is actruly good becouse it loosens the cervix and apparently make it a little more easyer for labor or so my docter told me i had c-cections i wouldent really know eather way do wat works for u and dont feel bad ur carrying this child noone else plus he really need to get use to having sex just once a week or maby less cuz once the baby comes there wont be much time for it anyway good luck hope everything works out and congrats on the new baby
2007-02-14 14:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't feel up to it and if he doesn't understand then there is something wrong with him. You are so not being too hard on him! Some guys don't even get it once a week!
2007-02-14 14:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by kaycee b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 27 weeks pregnant, my poor husband gets laid about once evry 2 months. I am just not in the mood. I will not do someting like that when i don't want to, I won't let him make me feel like I should (which he doesn't) When he gets pregnant he can decide our sex life, bottom line is you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Your body is going through a lot right now.
2007-02-18 12:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Navy Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a week is great, I think. It gets to be a lot when you are that far along. I know I always felt like a jungle gym. It also got more uncomfortable for me as I got further along. I know this is not the case for everyone, but something for your husband to consider.
2007-02-14 14:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by tryingagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he dosent know how it feels. I hate sex! I'm 40 weeks and I feel the least bit attractive and my stomach is so big, you are tired and fed up... Pregnant sex sucks.
2007-02-14 13:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
When you get about 38 weeks or so, you will probably want it ALOT! And it is a good way to get your labor going believe it or not.
2007-02-14 14:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO HE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND HOW YOUR BODY HAS CHANGED AND STIL CHANGING GETTING READY FOR CHILD BIRTH IT IS NORMAL NOT TO HAVE A LARGE SEX DRIVE IN THE END OF PREGNANCY
2007-02-14 13:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same way then i just felt bad and gave in ..he started hurting ...now we do it every day one in morning on time at night before he goes to work im 37 weeks
2007-02-14 13:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋