Today I was in yet another shouting match with my English teacher, who is an incompetent lady with a rage control problem, and I told her that because I am getting tired of her harraassment. She told me I was acting like the B word so I called her the same thing back and she told me to go to the office and I refused. She said she was does not want me to come back to her class until my dad and the principal meet with her, and I told her she cannot interfere with my right to an education. The principal called my dad and he is really annoyed at me and said I am going to "get it" when he gets home but he is such a workaholic be won't be home for 2 hours. How can I convince my dad that I was merely defending myself and not provoking anything?
I am 16, and spoiled.
2007-02-14
13:31:01
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To The Pink One...thank you. Being spoiled is very kewl, I don't care what they say.
2007-02-14
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update #1
HA HA 3 answers from spoiled girls. SPOILED GIRLS RULE!
2007-02-14
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CONGRATS 2 YOU!!!! I'm 13 (going to be 14 in two weeks), and I'm spoiled only child, lol!
U need to report this teacher to the principle IMMEDIATLY!!!! THAT IS NO WAY FOR A TEACHER TO ACT, REGARDLESS IF U ARE SPOILED OR NOT
(and i'm not saying being spoiled is a bad thing, as long as u give back to the community, don't mind waiting for the things u want, and share u things, being spoiled is totally fine =D )!!!! i'm spoiled, and i'm like the nicest person on the planet (as long as u don't piss me off, lol) just ask anybody i know, lol =)
have u told ur parents about this teacher? i think that would be a good idea. NO ONE, REGARDLESS OF AGE, HAS THE RIGHT TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT, REGARDLESS ON HOW MUCH ATHORITY THEY HAVE OVER U, U MUST NOT LET PEOPLE TREAT U LIKE THAT!!!!! THAT WAS UNACCEPTIBLE!!!!
LIKE TOTTALY, lol
2007-02-14 14:10:44
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answered by The_Pink_One 2
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Yes, we have all been there.
But, in the REAL WORLD, which school is preparing you for, you never have the luxury of speaking your mind.
School and teachers are training you not only in English and other subjects, but in life-skills, and these are more important than any of the subjects. School is a "practice-world", and it's important to approach it from that angle. You are being trained to get over hurdles, and it won't do you any good to kick one of the hurdles. That is the REAL education you are saying you have a right to---they are actually trying to give it to you, when they "correct" you.
It is VERY good to have a teacher with a rage control problem---because you are there to learn how to deal with someone in authority over you, and survive the experience intact. How better to learn it?
In the future, where you will spend your adulthood, you will need every skill of self-control, politeness, smiling even when you're enraged, being silent even when you're insulted, complimenting awful people, and saying, "yes, thank you" in all the horrible situations of life. School is your place to practice these skills which will let you survive later.
2007-02-14 15:22:50
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answered by papyrusbtl 6
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I don't know who you think you are impressing with your behaviour or attitude.I don't know if your father truly thinks your behaviour is OK ,is frustrated with you or he just doesn't care. You sound like an insecure girl who must draw attention to herself because she would be invisible otherwise.I remember that in a prior question you mentioned that your mother had died. I was sorry to hear that because you are at an age when she could be very important in your life.I would like to think t you would take a few moments and quietly reflect upon your life and try figure out how your mother would feel if she were alive to witness your behaviour. I'm sure your father thinks at 16 you should be more responsible.You shouldn't have to convince your dad you were doing the right thing at 16 .It is easy to impress other teens while you are on the Internet, but to impress and be cool in real life is so much more difficult.
2007-02-15 06:16:27
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answered by gussie 7
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Well, you are 16 and spoiled.
Teacher shouldn't be cursing you out. But then again, YOU didn't bother to explain what touched off the confrontation.
On the one hand, having the moxy to stand up and fight for yourself is commendable, but only if you choose your battles wisely and do not pick a fight over something of no consequence.
Sounds like the teacher isn't the only one with an anger management problem.
Oh yeah, one more thing, there is a very delicate, ever so fine line between a spoiled 16 year old, and a b*itch.
2007-02-14 13:42:22
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answered by Anonymous
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haha i do the exact same thing to my english teacher. she is the one i hate the most out of all my teachers. tell ur dad that she was verbally assulting u and that u had to defend urself cause it wasn't rite of her. ya im good at this stuff i have to do it all the time. i hate english teachers they think they kno everything and if u write one word or say one word wrong they get mad at u. like u rn't allowed to say ya u have to say yes which is so dumb. u should report that ugly teacher, and i probaly would have cussed her out some more if she called me a bit.ch.
2007-02-14 14:27:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Frist off, saying your spoiled and laughing about it, is really stupid. How about you go to hte princable and talk to him or her about hte teacher compane and do it over and over. You shouting back hurt you even more and will show the princable and your father that you maybe started it. Just keep your mouth shut walk out of the class to the office. Dont yell back Im sure your smarter than that.
2007-02-14 16:29:17
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answered by Samantha 3
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she could get fired for calling u da b word = )
2007-02-15 10:14:54
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answered by Anonymous
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You, most definately, are extremely SPOILED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I truly hope you get kicked out of school!
You need to learn how to respect people!
Teachers not only graduate high school, they must go to college and then be certified to teach.
You have NO right to yell at anyone!
You do have a right to education but when you mess it up (by being totally disrespectful) - then your rights are gone!
STOP acting so immature and get a life!
Why lie to your dad - he will be notified by the school. Just admit your mistake and do a lot of apologizing!
2007-02-14 13:41:18
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answered by Anonymous
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haha im 12 and spoiled! ABERCROMBIE FOR LIFE! ok i get in the same situations all the time and my mom just says it twas wrong and stuff and gives me a look and walks out of the room...........so idk cry or something
2007-02-14 13:37:22
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answered by Anonymous
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