Do you like telling anybody about your personal life , like where you were born and your childhood, etc?
And what about telling people about your personal wishes for yourself and such?
Do you feel after you tell somebody that you feel like you been "head raped"?
Why?
2007-02-14 13:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
1. It depends on the person. If I'm just meeting this person, then no. If it's a good friend, then yes, I love talking about my personal life, like experiences I've had etc.. But I ALSO LOVE listening to what they have to say about their personal experiences and life... I'm more of a listener actually, but I do enjoy being able to talk about myself every now and then.
2. My personal wishes for myself and such... Yes, again, I do if it's someone I can trust and I also love listening to what they have to say on the matter.
3. No, I don't. I feel good about myself and I also feel good about their interpretations on what I've said, both the good and bad things, the positive and negative things they have to say about it.
4. Why don't I feel that way? Because there's no need to. It's good to just ramble on sometimes, whether it's meaningful or off on a tangent.
But above all I prefer to listen and ocassionally drop in a little something about myself.
2007-02-14 13:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell people where I'm born and a little bit about my childhood, but other than that, I don't share much.
I absolutely do not feel comfortable telling people about my personal wishes and stuff like that. I don't know...It's a trust issue. I feel as if doing so makes me vulnerable. They know personal information about me, and from the way I look at it, they now have the power to hurt me. I don't know, it's not really something I can express verbally for other people to understand.
2007-02-14 22:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mushaboom. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are close friends, yes I tell them about my life, where I was born about my childhood and also my personal wishes and dreams.
No, I dont feel head raped at all, coz it was me talking, why should I feel head raped?
2007-02-14 21:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by queenbee_tch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind, but if they ask for too much personal information i start to think they're rapists. Other than that yeah I enjoy to spill the beans every now and then. I feel better rather than raped since all that stuff in my head is gone now.
2007-02-14 21:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Durr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely no problem for me as long as they are a good person then yes! I do waffle on a bit. As for feeling "head raped" no because it's my decision to speak so how could I feel violated.
2007-02-15 04:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by mrhoppy22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im one of those weirdo's that will (given half a chance) will babble on 4 ages abt me childhood n all that. but i dnt feel 'head raped' just like i've let out LOADS of steam,
2007-02-14 21:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't mind telling ppl my past or anything it doesn't bother me at all
2007-02-14 22:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by i love to the devil he's gr8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋