To married woman with children and my fellow gay family?

Question

I am a proud gay male. I love my man. I am happy. We don't have kids nor do we want them. What makes you think because you are a soccer mom I have to like your kids or put up with them? What makes you think that you have the right to decide whether I am can marry the man I love? Are you that insecure in your life that I can't live mine? Let me ask you this: Is marriage to you, being cheated on, teaching your kids how not to act in public, being part of a dysfunctional family, driving a gas hog, living in a house with a picket fence with a miserable man and mad wife with four terrible kids marriage?

Answer 1

I agree with you.. I have nothing against children but like you, I don't want any either. I don't think anyone has the right to tell anyone who they can love, and I'm all for gay marriage, I think love comes in many shapes and forms. Unfortunately some (I'm not saying ALL) married people like to look down their noses at people who aren't exactly like them. Maybe it makes them feel superior or gives them some small comfort amidst the chaos of their own soccer practice diaper changing cheating spouse, undisciplined child filled lives.

Answer 2

I for one am not a soccer mom. I dislike soccer tremendously, and the day my man cheats on me he can kiss his little bootie goodbye, I teach my kids how to do thier homework and be the best in what ever they want to be, am probably part of or have been part of a dyfunctional family, do drive a gas hog and love it, no one pays for my gas except me and my hub, live in a home with no picket fence wish I had one. White or red with bugambilias all wrapped around it. Have two beautiful kids, beauftiful curly haired, big eyed stunners. Have a miserable husband and I don't find any relevance to my life and yours because of what I have mentioned. None of what I have mentioned has any part at all to do with an anti gay racist sterio type. That I wouldn't approve of it may be true but again that is why my life is mine and yours, yours. Just because Ii am cristian and follow the belief in my god has commanded. But if it weren't for that I would not disapprove.

However disapproving is different than putting you down and feeling that you are an unworthy person. The only one who has the right to judge our smallest to biggest everyday actions is Jehova.

Hope you can find peace in reading the bible. Forgive whom is ignorant in this matter and well what can I say. No one is perfect.

Answer 3

Wow. Judgemental much?

You assume a heckuva lot in this post. Like that all married women with children fit into your preconceived notion of what their lives and personalities are.

How do you like it when the gay bashers start assuming that because you're gay, you're with a different man every day, or even multiple times a day? Or that you dress in fuschia, work as an interior decorator, run around calling people "Oh, you *****!" all the time, and all of the other stereotypes? And before you accuse me of gay bashing: my daughter and I are both bi. My two closest friends on this planet are a Lesbian and a gay man.

Now. I am a married woman. I have six children. None of them have ever played soccer or any organized sport. My husband and I do not cheat on each other. We do not expect you to like OR put up with our children, in fact we expect them to treat you and everybody else far more respectfully than we can apparently hope that you will treat them. Our family is not dysfunctional, owns no car any more, does not have a picket fence, a miserable man, a mad wife, or terrible children.

You have a LOT of nerve, buddy. Get over your bitterness toward whoever insulted you and quit stereotyping everybody based on that person. You would get extremely ticked off if people did that to you based on stereotypes, but you do it to others. What blatant hypocrisy.

Answer 4

you're saying: a million. The Bible stated gay marriage is incorrect And interior of an identical verse it says you shouldn't eat crab tarts. 2. Marriage has continuously been between a million guy and a million lady. each and every marriage in the Bible stated that. maximum marriages in the Bible were polygamy. 3. gay marriage is GROSS nicely, in elementary words marry 11 time somewhat of twelve. 4. it is going to spoil the sanctity of my daughter's fifth marriage particular. 5. Republicans are gay. nicely, that could want to be real. 6. gay marriage destroyed the Roman Empire there replaced into not in any respect gay marriage in the course of the Roman Empire. Gibbons attributes Christianity because the reason for the fall of the Roman Empire. 7. All international locations with gay marriage experience sorry about it now call one. 8. Hitler supported gay marriage, do you help Hitler's rules? that could no longer real. Hitler despatched homosexuals to concentration camps to have them killed.

Answer 5

You know if you'd like someone to treat you a little more respectful then try not acting like a prick. Perhaps, people are judging you because of your nasty arogant attitude.

I know several gay men, and my uncle is gay. i don't care not one way or the other about your sexual preference, not at all!!!!! It is none of my business.

I am a married woman, have been for 8 yrs and i'm pretty happy, of course there might be some things that I'd like to improve but I'm sure there's a few who say the same. WE aren't dysfunctional, we still have family dinner every night, my children still get spanked if they misbehave, and despite what I teach them, everyone is intitled to an off day, but they are still expected to act accordingly. WE drive low fuel consuming cars that are also clean emissions vehicles because we care about the environment and the world we leave behind for our kids. We don't have a white picket 1950's Cleaver house we have a small modest home that no matter what is in it or around it the four of us love each other and wouldn't want any part of our life to be with out the other. Me and my husband and two daughters are happy with in our existance and don't interfere with others. WE are ok with people being gay, and just because that's not what we decided to do with our sexuality, doesn't mean that we abuse or take it out on or EXPECT you as a GAY MAN to take it. I would not expect you to like my kids, however I would expect you to treat them with kindness as I know they would you, because you are a person with feelings.

With that being said, since you're on here bitching about how your happy life is being invaded because someone has been harrassing you about you being gay and telling you that the life you lead is imorral and sinful, who gives a ****. You're pissed cause someone passed judgement on you, well look at you, pot calling the kettle black. I would've never judged you based on you being a gay man, but your nasty attitude, and arogance would make me less likely to want to give a ****. If you want to be gay, go on get it on!!!! AS a MARRIED WOMAN I don't care. I am happy and secure in my life to the point to where I can tell you go on and live you life being a gay HAPPY man. Next time take your bitter rantings and angry antics to the ones who pissed you off in th first place intead of sitting in here bitching at the innocent, who say get on with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

I don't care what you do but me i would rather like the soccer kid a cheating whore,teaching a kid how to act ,being part of a dysfunctional family with a gas hog in a house with a bitchy old woman with the worse kids in the world then let some freak put his rod in my butt. I really hope you do mined that i feel that way but things are suppose to come out of there not go in

Answer 7

Wow, talk about stereotyping. For starters, no one thinks that you should like their kids. In fact I'm sure most would prefer you to stay just how you are, not liking their kids and away from their kids. What makes you think you have the right to thrust your perverted way of life in the faces of people who are trying to raise their kids to be happy, normal, moral adults? What makes you think you have the right to try to force everyone to accept your perverted way of life and make it normal and legal? By all means live your own life, just keep it to yourself and away from people wanting to live their lives the right way. If you ever realize you are wrong and change your ways then welcome back, until then stay hidden and shut up. It is just so typical of someone that is wrong and knows they are wrong to go out and attack the normal and stereotype them into one large group of the worst case scenarios. For your information there is just as large a percentage of homo's cheating and miserable as there are heteros. I can honestly say that I know more hetero marriages that are happy, functional families with children that behave in public, don't have a picket fence, don't drive a gas hog and do not cheat on each other then I know of marriages that are how you described. You would think you would be grateful for the hetero couples having all these children you can't stand, they are what is keeping this world populated, but unfortunatley that's also what brought someone like you into this world. If you want to be gay then be gay, I wish you no harm for it either, but stop throwing it in people's faces. You can call me homophobic for all I care, but if you are going to attack normal marriages at least get your facts straight. You wanted a married woman with children to answer your question, you got one.

Answer 8

WOW you are being so hypocritical. Is it the soccer mom thats against you??? How dare you point to others when you are trying to gain more understanding. Guess what there are a lot of soccer moms out there that want you to have the same rights as them. You are only hurting your cause by stereotying other groups of people. Try embracing all subcultures and one day you will be happy.

Answer 9

my best friend is openly gay, i couldnt be happier for him and his boyfriend, but i do not want them to get married. because i know that he wants to have kids of his OWN, and if he marries a gay man he can not do that. and all that stuff you babbled on about, like the dsyfunctional family, anger wife, terrible kids, thats doesnt happen to everyone..

Answer 10

well lets see. since you answered my question so nicely I actually had to report you, what shall I say, what shall I say. Um lets see, I don't respect your lifestyle, but you don't respect mine, so I suppose that evens out. One thing though, first what exaclty was your question, I mean do you hate others who can get married because you can't? Do you hate others who have children because you can't? Its Valentines day and I'm going to go have fun, just thought i would take the time to let you know your kinda slow and probably wont get any tonight! Ta!