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I am trying to do better on my job and be myself, without being with the majority of the people that I work with. Because they are of bad karma (Gossipers, backstabers, liars etc.,) I feel like because I work with them, I become judged because of their mishaps, so how do I gradually seperate myself from them?

2007-02-14 13:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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Just be mindful and have kindness and compassion for those 'fools'.

2007-02-16 21:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anger eating demon 5 · 0 0

I so know what you mean. You want to be in the loop but without having to endure the crap you get from your peers at work. Here is what I would do. As soon as someone starts talking negatively about someone else make up an excuse and go back to work. Your coworkers will get the hint. And is someone is bold enough to ask what is your problem do not shoot back with the obvious answer of shut up! but simply state you are bored about talking of other people. And if someone asks you your opinion of someone always be complimentary or say nothing at all. I work in a dynamic place. No one and I mean no one talks about anyone else. I have never worked in such an environment. Morale is so high it makes me dizzy. Good luck.

2007-02-14 13:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower 3 · 2 0

Give them less attention.
Whatever you pay more attention to, increases; whatever you pay less attention to, decreases.
This is why, for example, when you're pregnant you see lots of pregnant women everywhere, or when you're in a new romance you see lots of couples everywhere, or when you're considering buying a certain kind of car you see that model everywhere.
There's not really more of it, objectively, but there is more of it as far as you're concerned. THe same goes with backstabers and gossipers etc.

2007-02-14 13:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Joni DaNerd 6 · 2 0

Live your life as an example by not gossiping, or backstabbing and love them no matter what.

2007-02-14 13:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

definite, I once laughed even as a guy tripped up leaving a bar, then did an identical ingredient myself after I left - twisted my knee too :( i'm now very careful even as it contains stuff like that.

2016-11-03 11:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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