ok my friend is gay but he is really cute i mean really cute because every girl in school has asked him out and he sied no and i now he is gay because he told e that he lokes this one boy in the 12th grade he thinkes he is really hot
2007-02-14 12:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by cindy c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Even if you could change him (which you can't), you shouldn't even try. He will have hard feelings towards you for even trying.
2007-02-14 13:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by The Original Sin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change. That is sooo funny.
So. If ppl can change thier sexuality, do you think I can make you like...ummm...necrophila? What about doing it with horses? How about a program where you learn to get off on having your breasts stapled? There are plenty of ppl who like it. Surely, if sexuality is a matter of just changing your mind or learning to like it, you must be as willing to undergo a preference inducement as well, if you expect him to.
What kind of program do you think will make him, or you, change? Electroshock, perhaps? Drugs? Do you think if we stick you in a box and work at it long enough you'll learn to like being held down unmoving in ice cold water while someone pumps you?
All the fetishes I'm mentioned, of course, are real, and there are ppl who simply cannot get off without them, or some simulation thereof. Changing them into vanilla, or you into them, or him into het, are all just as likely on the probability scale.
I'm sure he's thrilled to know you think he's cute. I'll bet he's just as repulsed by the thought of women as you were with the above perclavities. Unless you liked some of them...
2007-02-14 21:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by treycapnerhurst 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not only would it be wrong, it isn't possible. People are born with their sexual orientations. Now you know how gay men feel when they see a good looking straight guy that they know they can't have. Don't worry, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
2007-02-14 21:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you can try to change and become gay if you want. millions of gay people have tried to become straight , though. And it hasn't worked for them.
2007-02-14 21:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone love you - even if they are heterosexual and you are heterosexual - so why even think about it with this guy - it has nothing to do with what he says he is or what he thinks he is.
2007-02-17 22:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't "change" him into straight anymore than I could change you into gay. you either are....or you aren't. it's not like flipping a light switch. we don't choose to be gay anymore than you choose to be straight. it's genetics....
2007-02-14 21:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to change into a gay boy so that he'll like you? I don't think it can be done, but you're welcome to try.
2007-02-14 21:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's willing to, yeah, I personally think it's wrong to be lez in the first place, but that's the way we are, right?
2007-02-14 21:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't change him. I think that's a pretty selfish thought..
2007-02-14 20:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
y change him from whut he is? if he's happy that's all that matters. let him be gay.
2007-02-14 21:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by andrew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋