There have been a few times when I've hung out with freinds in the past, and I'll be talking and trying to contribute to the conversation(I was not talking quietly either)....and it was if I didn't exist. If I spoke out and said "no one is listening to me!" then they accused me of being dramatic. How should I have handeled this? Has it happened to you?
2007-02-14 12:49:18 · 11 answers · asked by whoswhomwho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yea its happened, its like a conversation without you!
I noticed to go along, nod, agree, don't say anything if you don't have nothing to say.
At the end, they'll b talking to you lol but yea, sometimes I think they don't notice how they should talk about things everyone can b included in
2007-02-14 12:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes my friends have done this to me before and it makes me really sad like they don't like me. My daughter came home the other day crying because people left her out and said she was very fat and chubby (shes in kindergarten) anyway yes it does make me sad
How to handle it is to either walk away or if you don't want to just say "can I say something" or "please let me talk" sorry about the whole thing with you have a nice Valetines Day
2007-02-14 12:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Lauryn♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssssssss...Plenty of time roll reversal just look and when they finish & are waiting for input say oooh Huh? what you say then proceed but do it several times & you'll get major attention trust me..They are going to want to know wassup with you..lol...
2007-02-14 12:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, definitely... pretty often, i'm sure... i don't really know what i should do too... sometimes i just pretend to go along... other times i become a recluse... or i add some words along the way to try to fit in... i guess i should find a friend who really cares about me... well, at least God cares and i can share my problems with him... and my family and my bf too :D
2007-02-14 13:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If I do then I will never hang out with them. I got better things to do than being left out.
2007-02-14 12:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try to be the one to start the whole conversation, so they have no choice but to include me in it. if they try to ignore me, i wont make a big scene or anything but i'll let them know that im pissed and if they refuse to include me i'll start bein rude at every chance i get
2007-02-14 13:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this happens to me all the time and rele i have no answer cuz i still can't figure it out the exact same thing has happened to me maybe its cuz we're too emotional or sumthin i don't no but if u figure it out plleeeeeez let me no
2007-02-14 12:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try finding some new friends who will listen to what you have to say!
2007-02-14 12:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, now anyway, it used to be me and my two freinds ( a guy and a girl) now they've hooked up now in a third wheel..saddly i wouldnt have to be if i had a b/f
2007-02-14 12:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i know exactly how u feel, i just don't go anywhere with the so called friends and stay to myself
2007-02-14 12:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by ornini011392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋