I'm a female in my early twenties with little desire for sex. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years, and my disire has diminished to nearly nothing. We have a good relationship, no abuse,no financial issues, no children, etc. I have no interest and I will never initiate it. When I am touched I just feel frustrated or annoyed or my mind is elsewhere. Once we get started, I'm OK and it's enjoyable. (Plus, no new meds, no physical problems.) I've heard it could be depression, but I think I would know if I was depressed! Any other ladies feel this way? What did you do to correct?
2007-02-14 12:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by xo 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
some women just don't have much of a sex drive until later in life, others may feel fine but have hormone imbalances.........try talking with the doctor, they may be able to offer suggestions and run tests for your hormone levels, etc. BTW.......you would be surprised by the number of people walking around with a cloud and have no idea until they get help.
2007-02-14 12:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 11:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on birth control pills? Ask your Gyn to put you on a different brand.
Some brands delete desire, others increase it, others have no effect.
When I was in my 20's I did not have any desire either, but I have a hormonal problem. Once I was put on the Pill in 1993, I have had desire since then.
2007-02-14 14:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Previous posters are right, it may be hormones or your thyroid. It's easy to test your thyroid at home with a BBT themometer. Look for how to's on the internet.
2007-02-14 12:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by chieromancer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
had the same problem after i got married was caused by depression the sad part was i didn't know i was depressed you need to talk to your doctor about this
2007-02-14 13:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by yosi22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be low hormones or depression you can get hormone levels checked by physician..do you have any other health concerns that may be causing this... do you have a thyroid problem it can cause low libido.
2007-02-14 12:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by oktobejustme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's good for a woman not to have a sex drive, because then she can't spread her legs wide open and then cry rape at the moment of penetration.
2007-02-14 12:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by D.L. Miller 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You may have a better sex drive if you have an orgasm.
2007-02-14 12:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by ando ciompa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
are you on birth control pills? that ruined it for me..
2007-02-14 12:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋