okay well its valentines day and so much stuff happened. im thirteen and in seventh grade. we had a sock hop at my school today and there was lots of drama going on. me and my friend tried to stay out of it as much as possible but most of it was about us.
MY StoRy: theres this guy who i'll call "R" and theres another guy "M" both of them used to like me like a whole lot but i thought they were over it. i found out today from my friend that M wanted to dance with me . i really hate him like literately and i thought he knew. aaron his friend told me he thought i was just joking about it but im really not! "R" was just kinda staring at me all night and he started to freak me out! niehter one of them ever actually asked me to dance w/ them cause i tried to avoid them as much as possible. but they are both in my homroom and idk what to do tomarrow! so plz respond fast. i just need help knowing what to tell them and what to do. now our school is getting into this & idk wat 2 do!
2007-02-14 12:42:24 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, you are in 7th grade and this is not the end of the world...though it probably appears that way. My dad used to tell me, "...and this too shall pass". What he meant was that no matter how good or bad something is now, it will pass and change...so don't be too hard on yourself or over-think this thing. It WILL work out.
There are some options for you:
1. Sometimes ignoring a problem is the best solution. Ignore the boys and let it go away on its own.
2. Confront the boys directly...NOT through your friends. Tell them that you are not interested and would appreciate it if they would quit hounding you (or something in a nicer tone).
3. Discuss this with you mom, dad, grand parent, etc. Their experience may come in handy.
In the end, over time, this WILL go away...and another boy, or boys will be infatuated with you (again). It's just part of life. Enjoy this time. It really is fun...believe it or not!
Good luck!
2007-02-14 12:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. u shouldnt be this serious in seventh grade, but since u are, u should just tell "M" boy that you dislike him in a nice way, like that you don't have anything in common, or your parents won't let you go out. And i have never heard of staring hurting anyone, so don't let it bother you in homeroom. Isn't school supposed to be where u learn. Tomorrow just act like nothing happened, and if they confront you, which they proly wont, just tell them what u truly believe. The truth is usually the correct route, but a little white lie has never really hurt any1!
2007-02-14 12:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by divalious0124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel and where you stand. If you want to be left alone tell them. If you want to be admired by one but not the other. Tell the one you want to tell but tell. People dont know things unless their told. Find me a mind reader besides the one on Heroes. I'll put that person in the circus.
2007-02-14 12:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in your situation, I would be honest with both of them and tell them how you feel about them they will accept it because the truth is always better than a lie.
2007-02-14 12:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by dantheman7588 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh seventh grade issues i miss those days...anyway if u don't like them in that way and they freak u out.....be blunt about and let them know how u feel, instead of leading them on....
2007-02-14 12:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by ornini011392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they didn't ask you to dance they will probably not even talk to tomorrow just go about your normal day..things will be OK
2007-02-14 12:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by tonygirl20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have friends in your homeroom, just talk to them. ignore the two guys, because they most probably will not approach you.
2007-02-14 12:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like, oh my god, that is crazy
2007-02-14 12:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by confuscious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋