Today, I sent the girl whom I love a Valentine's card cheap compared to the rest of the presents she recieved. I think she smiled at me once or it just could've been a coincidence that she was smiling before and the smile hadn't worn off yet. Later, I saw her friend scrutinizing me as if she told her I had sent her a card. I know she would not just walk up and talk to me if she liked me back or not yet I just wish that she wasn't that shy. I, however, am also shy so I fear having to walk up to her and her friends and face them. I think that she thinks that my love for her is a good compliment, but trying to hint that I am wasting my time. If not that, it also could be that she rejects my love completely and is annoyed each time she recieves any kind of reminder. We have known each other for three years, yet it seems that does not matter for she does not love me...or does she? There are people better than me she knows.
2007-02-14 12:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by Spectator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well cookie, the good thing is I don't think it's love, for love is always reciprocated. So cheer up because you'll get over her and there will be many other girls. You can be shy, but never be too shy to go after what you want. All the feelings could be a possibility of how she feels, you have to have confidence. People better than you? What is that? You're great, if no one else believes that, at least you have too. If she doesn't like you in return, then don't waste your time with her, it's obvious that she doesn't because she didn't say anything to you. No matter how shy a person is, when a guy gives them anything for Valentine's day they would go up to them and say something, anything they would not just let you go without a "thank you" or something. She's just rude. So move on to someone who deserves you babe, waiting for her to come around could take more time than you're willing to invest. That girl who will love you unconditionally is out there, just wait a little while longer. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a lot of work. You'll see that when you get one. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-14 13:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had a conversation with her? If not, she could be finding it "creepy" that she received a v-day card from you and has never actually talked to you. My suggestion is that if your feelings for her are strong and true then talk to her. Start a conversation with her about her hobby, the weather, ect. Make it something simple but will help her get to know you and you know her better. You will never know how she feels about you until you ask! Good luck!
2007-02-14 12:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by kansasredneckwomen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love.
I think she likes you too.
Somehow I get this feeling that you are gonna have a relationship very soon with this lady.
Remember she might know people (better than you) but if she cares about you it does not matter who she knows.
Good luck
2007-02-14 18:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by janice m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if the card was cheap, at least U thought enough about her to give her the card. Maybe she is waiting for you to walk up to her and tell her how you feel.Good Luck
2007-02-14 12:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't approach her in front of her friends...just in case you embarrass her,then she will really be mad at you...Try to approach her sometime and ask her if she liked it...see if she seems attracted to you when you speak to her...just give it a try...what have you got to lose....Good luck
2007-02-14 13:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget your shyness for one and ask her out.about your feelings for her then tell her directly that you like her for quite sometime now.maybe she does like you but how will you know it if you dont talk to her.
2007-02-14 12:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋