Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 4 months now and are talking about having sex (My first time not his) and I think I want to have a baby with him how deep does he need to penetrate me for that to happen?
2007-02-14 12:16:38 · 12 answers · asked by Teresa C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Not at all, just getting sperm on the outside of your vagina could get you pregnant.
2007-02-14 12:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, having a baby with your first partner is dumb. Especially if you're young and especially this early in a relationship. Babies are a huge responsibility, it's not like a puppy or a fish that you can just feed, let poop in the yard, and flush when it croaks. Give it time before you have a child because you want to stay together and give the child a stable family and a good relationship with your partner is a huge factor in that. Secondly, the depth of penetration has nothing to do with pregnancy. During climax, a man ejaculates which pushes the sperm deeper into the vaginal tract. The individual sperm then begin moving themselves toward the woman's egg. If depth of penetration had anything to do with getting pregnant, some men wouldn't be able to impregnate a woman and a man would actually have to get the head of his penis into your uterus which would be unbelievably uncomfortable. I think if you don't understand the basic mechanics of human reproduction, you aren't ready for a baby.
2007-02-14 12:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by PUtuba7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my erection maxes out at 8.5 in. If my wife is really turned on she can accommodate all of it no problem, but if not, then I get the stiff-arm ( not fun lol ). Typically we start of going really slow, and then towards the end I'm pounding her like a jackhammer. Yes being able to penetrate deep inside is very enjoyable assuming it's wet enough. The feeling of the vulva wrapping around the base is beyond description with words. My suggestion would be to start off really slow, and pick up the pace as you get more into it, and go a little deeper. You should be able to take it all eventually. We are talking about a body part that squeezes out entire human beings after all (small ones, but still bigger than the penis you described). If it's still too painful, then just let him know. He won't be offended, and if you are having sex with the guy, you should be able to talk about sex with him. But if he insists on smashing against it after you've talked about it with him, dump him.
2016-03-29 06:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you have stars in your eyes and think that this guy's really "the one", but I can hear danger signals all the way over here. Don't rush this, please...because my gut's saying that this guy probably doesn't feel the same way about the baby. Yes, he may want to have sex with you. But not so that there will be a happily ever after. Having a baby with this guy will NOT make him stay with you, so you better make sure that HE wants a baby. I know of way too many girls who have had this thought that the guy they loved would stay with them and love the baby, only to find out that it's just "too much" for the guy and he bails out! To answer your question, all that has to happen is for the sperm to enter your vagina--it's not how far he goes in, it's how far the sperm goes.
2007-02-14 13:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Actually you ask a great question. The truth is, penetrating very deep feels good in our Mind. Does that make sense? Its like a mental thing... like "oh yeah, im so deep, im destroying her." It basically makes a guy feel stronger and more masculine. It doesnt feel any different physically to not go sooo deep. The best thing you could do, is to Express More Pleasure when he is Not going so deep. One thing guys love more than anything is knowing that they are making their girl feel good. If you show him that it feels great when he is halfway in, then he will keep doing that more often. Perhaps he will still go really deep when he is about to ***, but thats only a few seconds - im sure that would be better for you than several minutes.
2016-04-04 00:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are or your b/friend, but you must be quite young to ask this type of question. First of all it is possible to become pregnant without any penetration. Your doctor, or trusted mature female friend will attest to this.
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2007-02-14 12:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by neon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how deep he penetrates. I learned in nursing school that sperm shoot out 45 mph!!! It will get there.
2007-02-14 12:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to stick in there at all for you to get pregnant. If any sperm get near the vaginal opening and there's enough wet, they will get right where you don't want them to be. This goes for sperm on his hands and then having his hands near your vagina. this is how virgins get pregnant!!!!! Get on the pill or use condoms AND a spermicide to protect yourself. NOTHING is fool proof, so if you don't want to risk getting preggo, then do not have sex.
2007-02-14 12:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
himmm are you finatualy ready for a child? if so not verry bit you have to be in your most fertal perioud of the month for it to have any effect. my friend got preg with her daughter by precum. so i wouldnt worry too much..
2007-02-14 12:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
penetreate to get pregnant sorry there aint no such thing any kind of sex can get you pregnant.
2007-02-14 12:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋