My best friend just got a new girlfriend.... and im happy for him but.... im secretly kinda jealous and worried that he'll be hurt at the end of the relationship... what should i do?
2007-02-14 11:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your feeling fine we always think when a friend gets a girl friend they are going to forgot all about you but believe me you don't, he's still your friend and it's nice of you to worry about him that's what a good friend dose.
As for feeling he may get hurt, there’s one thing you can do, just be there for him when and if it happens that will mean more to him then he'll know. Friends to the end and no girl should ever come between you two, remember this when you the one that has a girlfriend.
Good luck my friend
2007-02-14 11:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I went through the same thing! It's tough because you do not want to tell him and he does not feel the same way and etc All I can say is continue to be his friend Like I did you should'nt let the fact that he is with someone come in between what you guys have/had, she probably won't be around for too long anyways. Perhaps your worried that he may actually love her and eventually end up with her who knows if you feel that you cannot live with the fact that he is with someone else then maybe you should tell him, but be prepared for the consequences.!!
Hope this helps!
2007-02-14 19:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
secretly kinda jealous of ? worried that he will get hurt ? these are two issues.. think u should just leave them alone cause is their life.. unless u really know she is a player.. then should warn him.. but otherwise.. this is all part of growing up for ur best friend
2007-02-14 19:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Philip L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should see how the girl is before ur best friend get hurt at the end of the relationship.
2007-02-14 19:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss LiL Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds mean, but mind your own business. You cannot help him, and trying to will only make you look bad.
2007-02-14 19:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Helpful Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wish them the best,and go on your own way...
2007-02-14 19:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like someone has a crush :). Tell him.
2007-02-14 19:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by WallStreetWannaBe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel i mean if he does get hurt wouldnt you feel bad that you didnt warn him
2007-02-14 19:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by babygirlknowhowtodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is express your concern. but other then that let him be. i know how you feel. im sorry but let him make or break it you know?
2007-02-14 19:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not interferer with the relationship
2007-02-14 20:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by drakos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋