Is this normal??

Question

Im 13 years old and i still don't have a boyfriend. I know that im still young and everything and there aren't any guys that im intersted in at my school. But still, it is Valentines day and i feel lonely... Is this normal? When did u start going out? When was ur first kiss? Just wondering. what shoudl i do? Thanks for your help. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

Sorry u are all right. This is rediculous 4 me 2 be thinking about now. I have much more important things that i could be doing with my life than worrying about this. Sorry this isn't how i normaly am. Thanx 4 ur advice! Happy V day!!
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Sorry u are all right. This is rediculous 4 me 2 be thinking about now. I have much more important things that i could be doing with my life than worrying about this. Sorry this isn't how i normaly am. Thanx 4 ur advice! Happy V day!!
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Answer 1

Don't start dating just to live up to some random standard. You need to wait till you meet someone who is right for you and who interests you, and that will happen naturally; you can't force it. Have fun with your friends and enjoy yourself without worrying about doing what everyone thinks you MUST do to fit in. Dating introduces a whole new level of complicated confusion into your life. Enjoy your freedom and youth and lack of obligations while you can. Out here in the grownup world it's not nearly as fun.

Answer 2

Girls want boys younger than boys want girls at a younger age. I will tell you from experience, i was one of those girls who ALWAYS had a b/f in High School and always got my heart broken. To this day, when I was in college, I had no man, and NO FRIENDS. BEcause i had ditched them all for boys, I was left with no friends. If I could go back, I wouldn't change much, it made me who I am today. You have A LOT of time before you seriously date. I don't think people should start dating until they are ready for it. I don't think 13 is a good age. I think 16-17 is a better age. My boyfriend didn't make out with anyone until he was 22, and it was with me. he just never wanted to date anyone, and I tell you, he is a better person because of it. he has no bitterness and is the best boyfriend I have ever had! Don't rush life hun, its WAY WAY too short! You will be 23 before you know it! It feels like just yesterday that I was in 8th grade, and by then I had made out with a guy. It will all come in time!! Valentine's day is just a day to make single people feel bad, don't worry!! Live life!

Answer 3

It is normal to feel lonely. I was 16 when I started going out. My first kiss was actually when I was 13. It was unwelcome. A classmate forced me. I always pictured my first kiss very nice and loving.
I know that it is hard to wait for love. My daughter is 26 and hasn't found true love.
She is beautiful.
She is going out on a first date tonight with a 22 year old man.
She has been waiting along time and I feel for her.
I told her it is better to spend this day alone, rather than with a jerk. (That was last week before this date).
My girl did not have a friend until she was a Junior in highschool. She was chubby with braces.
Now she is the bomb.
She looks like Anna Nicole, but does not act like her.
I think you should do things you like.
Better yourself.
Have fun.
Study and learn.
I hope next year is a better V day for you.
Peace out.

Answer 4

it is perfectly normal to not have a bf at 13. believe me you don't want all the heartbreak and work that it takes to have a bf and then maybe lose him. just live your life like it is now. you'll want to keep free time for other things like your friends and yourself. maybe once you get a little older you'll start knowing and gaining friendships with boys your own age and seeing who is right for you and who is not. it is lonely on vday especially but celebrate with your friends (who don't have bf) and see how much fun you can have without a boy. i didn't have my first boyfriend until i was 17 (and that was when i had my first kiss too) and even though that might sound lame or whatnot i'm glad i didn't start til then. i think i would've made some HORRIBLE mistakes if i had started earlier. just be careful who you hang out with and just take it easy. you'll know when you find that right guy to go out with. and even if he doesn't ask you out you can ask him. that's normal too ... =) be happy and happy valentines day!

Answer 5

Ok, at 13 my friends all thought guys were cute and kissing them and stuff and I still thought boys were kind of weird and was scared of them. I had my first kiss at 16 when I started working after school and breaking out of my "school" self and becoming more of my own self. Then I "hooked up" with a guy when I was 17. Then I got married when I was 21, and all my friends were still single. I was the latest "bloomer" of my group and I was the first one married and the first to have a kid. And I'm glad that I waited to start experimenting because a lot of my friends went through a lot of heartbreak and confusion and stuff because they weren't mature enough to handle the emotions that they were feeling. Plus, a lot of high schoolers end up with people that they are not that compatible with because of the whole "who's cool, who's a dork" thing and the people that their friends like is not people who they like themselves. So, give yourself some time to figure out the kind of person YOU like, not your friends, and don't go looking for someone out of desperation, a lot of times a good friend will end up becoming more over time. You have a lot of time, Let yourself relax.

Answer 6

yes dear it is normal. my son is your age he doesn't have a girl friend and i think its normal. kids your age need to worry about school and not what your friends think. if i had listened to my mother i probably wouldn't have dropped out of school at 17 and had a child at 19 and working my legs off trying to make ends meet for my children so they can have ipods cell phones and all the things that i didnt have so honey, please worry about school believe me boys will come around later and thats always for the best worry about what you want to be when you are an adult learn to be independent and take care of you and not be dependent on some one else. happy valentines day. oh yeah my regrets are not any. i love my kids and my life but i wish i was older when i had them and got my education so i wouldnt have to struggle and could spend more time with them and enjoy them more.

Answer 7

yes it is normal for u to have these feelings most girls ur age do.... its apart of growin up! 13??????wow i remember those days i had so much fun in school it didnt really matter if i had a bf....
i started goin out at 16 and thats when i had my 1st kiss.....girl u should take ur time and have fun in school keep ur self pre-occuppied with activites after school programs things like that.....if its meant for u to have a bf then he will come find u...dont push it relax hes out there.

p.s. happy v-day 2 u

Answer 8

It's completely normal. I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend or anything and I know people older who haven't. You really shouldn't worry about. I'm sick of hearing about people who aren't in high school going out with people.

Answer 9

Well it's not like you have to have a BF now, your like 13 yeas old not 30. Anyways it's your parents decsicion to see if you can have a BF

Answer 10

Concentrate on the friend part, and learn all you can.
Try to survive the government school without being totally brainwashed.